i want this wedding to be over..seriously

failurebydsign Posted: Dec 12, 2007 03:10 PM

i want this wedding to be over..seriously

im having to deal with so much stress over this thing its crazy

everyday i hear about another person who says that they are not coming and what a big inconvienece it is that im having it in NY

my mom and FFIL not paying their part of the bargain caused me to move away from FH so i could make more money

and now family things are starting..because people think they can not be in a huge room with some people because of personal reasons..thye are taking it out on FH and i and are not coming to this wedding

im done with it..all the fun is out the window..and its a day i am now dreading and not excited for..i love FH and i could really give 2 $hits right now about this whole thing

we should have eloped..because when you get big families involved and you have to try to accomodate everyone..its causes problems

skinny237 Posted: Dec 12, 2007 03:14 PM

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I'm sorry you're going through this! I don't even know what to say that would make you feel better. I just know that a lot of us going through crazy family stress before the wedding, but it usually gets better! Some days just seem worse than others, but as long as u have FH and u luv each other, things will work out.

Crystan08 Posted: Dec 12, 2007 03:15 PM

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I'm so sorry you feel this way!!!! You are just stressed and everything will work out!!! RSVP's just went out right? You will see...everyone you want to be there will there to support you and your FH and it will be such a beautiful day. Just think about you and FH and no one else...it isn't about your guests remember that!!!!!

failurebydsign Posted: Dec 12, 2007 03:15 PM

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i know that and thats what keeps me going

the people that love me will be there and thats all that matters

but its still so $hitty

mathteach Posted: Dec 12, 2007 03:19 PM

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People are $$$$hitty. Just remember that those who love you and who you truly want there, will be there. I can send my kids to your wedding if you need some crazies to make you feel better

MJDoc12 Posted: Dec 12, 2007 03:20 PM

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its such a tough time---right around the 2 month mark comes the 'i want this to be OVER!' feeling and its okay to feel that way. its like you are at the cusp of it all and you feel like its ALMOST here and at the same time its FAR AWAY.

it will be worth it in the end! you'll have a great day no matter what!

failurebydsign Posted: Dec 12, 2007 03:21 PM

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this is why i love you ladies

Soon2beAlberti Posted: Dec 12, 2007 03:32 PM

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tell them what my sis told our family 'I'll just give you guys straws and spitballs and you can sit across from each other and have at it all night' maybe that'll help them realize how childish theyre being.

Mizzdimple Posted: Dec 12, 2007 03:34 PM

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I know what ya mean ...try to focus on the positive people.

TGs Lady 22908 Posted: Dec 12, 2007 03:36 PM

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i totally hear you dominique i too, am stressed to the brink. i want this wedding to be over so we can get on with our lives. sometimes i just feel like it's holding things up, if that makes sense

KK Holiday Posted: Dec 12, 2007 04:11 PM

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I'm so sorry you are going through this!

If you ask me everyone is acting like BABIES! They are taking away from your happiness and I wouldnt be shy about telling them so. Tell them to grow up and s*ck it up for one day.

I had to tell my father to 'be a man' because he was throwing hissy fits about my mother (surprise surprise, theyre divorced). I was like 'Dad, its a wedding. It's hell. But you complaining is making it worse. Be a man and s*uck it up!'

After that he doesnt complain anymore!

colleen1117 Posted: Dec 12, 2007 04:16 PM

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Posted by Soon2beAlberti

tell them what my sis told our family 'I'll just give you guys straws and spitballs and you can sit across from each other and have at it all night' maybe that'll help them realize how childish theyre being.

LOVE THIS I'm TOTALLY going to use that!!! if and when needed!
I agree that it seems to all go to 'lets get this over and done' about 2 months before.

I now officially dub this time frame...THE TERRIBLE TWO's!!!!!!

mendi725 Posted: Dec 12, 2007 04:31 PM

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i'm sorry that people are ruining this for you. this should be a fun and exciting time. how does FH feel?

hopefully things get better. ;)

Celest Posted: Dec 12, 2007 04:37 PM

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I am so sorry people are so stupid. But I am going to try my hardest to not let those dorks wear me down. It's the biggest party I ever had & I am going to have fun with the people that are truly there for me.

Those people are miserable every day, don't let it affect you. You are going to have fun & look beautiful & they could just kiss ur @ss (didn't we have a threat like that..lol)

We're here for you hon!

Teamhurldon Posted: Dec 12, 2007 04:45 PM

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A drama recently started in my fam too and some aunts wont be coming because of issues with my mom, at first i was upset like you, and now I'm like fuckkk it!

The more asssses that arent there, the better! The people that really care for you and really matter will be the ones there... in your heart you know this... try not to let these jerks ruin your day

failurebydsign Posted: Dec 12, 2007 06:53 PM

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Posted by TGs Lady 22908

i totally hear you dominique i too, am stressed to the brink. i want this wedding to be over so we can get on with our lives. sometimes i just feel like it's holding things up, if that makes sense

WORD FOR WORD what i said today..im excited to have the big princess wedding and all..but really..i just want our lives to start

tlp123 Posted: Dec 12, 2007 07:03 PM

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Sorry to hear this. It s*cks. Are they giving you a hard time for having it in the winter? People definitely are with me!

davenjess Posted: Dec 12, 2007 07:04 PM

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i am so sorry you are going through this - I FEEL YOUR PAIN!!!!!!!!!!!

if you ever need someone to talk to - please FM me.....i know what you are going through tenfold!

SAMORY Posted: Dec 12, 2007 07:17 PM

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Sweetie this is yours and fh day.Stop trying to accomodate everyone and just accomodate yourself and fh. Your family members had their day or will have it one day. Do you and don't worry about the rest.

MeaganAndJoeC Posted: Dec 12, 2007 09:37 PM

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I feel that sometimes people need to put problems behind them and coexist for the pure pupose that its importnat to someone THEY LOVE... which you and FH.. I am sorry and dont let this get in the way of enjoying this. I know its easier said then done .. but try.