FH doesn't think he's ready to get married. We're 59 days away and today he decides to tell me this! At work no less and now I am a flipping mess and I can't even concentrate. I don't know what to do. I told him that he has to decide sooner rather than later what he wants. I think if I saw him right now I would punch him. I can't take this. I just want to crawl into a hole and cry.
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Seriously. This makes ME want to punch him.
Try to just keep busy and calm down at work.
When you get home talk to him and ask him what it is he's concerned about. He probably just needs to talk some things out.
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Seriously. This makes ME want to punch him.
Try to just keep busy and calm down at work.
When you get home talk to him and ask him what it is he's concerned about. He probably just needs to talk some things out.
ITA on all points...
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Oh boy!!!! I’m so sorry he’s doing this to you, but he’s prob just freaking out and after a long talk should be fine.
Future Mrs H
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Oh No Hun!!!! What the hell is wrong with these guys lately??????
I just went through this too- FM me if you want to talk
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Try not to think about it at work. (I hate when FH tells me things he knows are going to upset me while I'm at work!) But just think about how many ladies have been going through this late. I'll bet it's just nerves/cold feet. Talk to him about it when you get home.
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keep yourself busy at work and after work talk to him ..calmly
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christine2010
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Talk to him after work tonight. Maybe he is just unsure of a few things & you need to work them out.
Good Luck
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elp6421
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OMG what is going on with these LI wedding FH today......
I am sure he is just going through cold feet. Really, I would take the rest of the day off of work if you can. Have some YOU time before you have to really deal with whats going on. It will give you time to get your composure.
If you need anything I am always here for FM.
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its probably just cold feet. but just try to talk to him and find out whats worrying him. Good luck hun. We are all here for you
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Seriously. This makes ME want to punch him.
Try to just keep busy and calm down at work.
When you get home talk to him and ask him what it is he's concerned about. He probably just needs to talk some things out.
well said. just think it seems that alot of girls in our 2010 group are going through similar things... our guys see how close it is getting and they are all getting chilly feets.... it will be ok.
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Oh no!!!
GR2010
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Oh no!!! I am so so sorry. I would say try not to think about it while you're at work but I know that is probably imopssible. This is something he should have told you in person and at home. I hope you two get the chance to sit down and chat tonight.
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honestly i know it sound wierd but dont pressure him, obviously your wedding is like now.. but if you tell him to decide like asap then it can go either way as in he may call it off out of anger, or he'll just say yes even though hes not 100% sure (knock on wood) and who knows what can happen after
go home tonight and talk everything over, maybe he just has the jitters or something
either way i hope everything turns out ok
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oh no! sorry sounds like he is freaking out with the wedding being so close did he give any reason as to why he all of a sudden feels like this?
