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I want to kill my FSIL who is also one of my MOH

girlygrl33 Posted: Oct 23, 2004 09:48 AM+

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Posted: Oct 23, 2004 09:48 AM

I want to kill my FSIL who is also one of my MOH

we got into a huge fight b/c she is pressing my FH to put her husband in the wedding party. First of all the family cant stand him, my FH and he dont get along and I personally dont care for him either, and they live out of state. but out of respect for my FH I made his sister a MOH. so now shes pressing and saying its a blatant snob to my family if her husband is not in the wedding party and its all about me!! I was like it is my wedding and our BP consist more of his family too!! She has done absolutely nothing for me as a MOH I had asked her to do a bridal newsletter for me if I gave all the info her reply Ill see- she is home allday!!! doesnt work and is good on the computer and offered to help before we got engaged, now story changes???????thank god she lives out of state - florida to be exact. I feel so bad for my FH to be harrassed like this and I told her its not her place to tell us who to have in our wedding party. I really regret asking her to be a MOH a BM would have been fine. but whats done is done. then his aunt comes over the night before telling me what to do and yadda yadda yadda- I was like what the hell, politely I told her my mother and I and I have a stepmom have everything under control and I appreciate her wanting to help- if thats even what she was doing with her 2 plus cents. and then thurs the sister!!! anyone else just getting crap from the future side??????? my family and step has NOt once interfered!!!! they are great and I thought I would be stress free from the family budding in as I heard from other brides. ugh!!!! had to vent

marymoon Posted: Oct 23, 2004 09:54 AM+

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Posted: Oct 23, 2004 09:54 AM

Re: I want to kill my FSIL who is also one of my MOH

Aren't in laws the worst?

You TOTALLY don't have to have her husband in the bridal party. Explain you're not close with him, you have enough men, whatever. I know it's hard to say and do without feeling like you sound mean, but seriously, you have to draw the line!