I was so happy today and then I get an email :(

My best friend for the last 20 years, a BM in my wedding (she moved to FLA) just told me that not only cant she be in my wedding, but that she cant even come to my wedding!

She had a great job for the last 5 years in FL, she met a guy who asked her to move with him to Tampa and she could work for his friend's payroll company....all was good for 4 months. She got laid off 2 weeks ago, the guy she moved in with has now decided that he doesnt want a relationship because he wants to go back to school in NYC, so now she has no where to live and no job! I told her that I would pay for her dress and buy her plane ticket but she said its not right for me to pay for her! She said that she will send me a gift, I said dont you dare, either save your money or buy a ticket, you can stay in our house.

We are on the phone now crying to each other....I am so upset right now