I witnessed the most insane Bride Meltdown and....

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Posted by Mimacat

Please tell me that someone videotaped this so that you can show her later on how absurd and embarassing she acted.

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by csaburro

also the fact that she says it is normal to feel 'empty' after a wedding is alarming....I don't know about you ladies, but after I marry FH I certainly won't be feeling 'empty'....that may be a sign that she is not happy........that could be part of the problem.

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This is what she wrote to me:



I just wanted to tell you all this because you are going to go through it and , after talking to a few people, I hear that this sense of emptiness and confusion is Normal. I know you've been on the bridesmaid end of things many times but you havent been on this end.....you helped me get through the planning process because you knew everything and I didnt.....This maybe I can prepare you for. I had NO IDEA i would feel this way and knowing its normal makes me feel a little better.

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by Espo22

WOW very weird and cant believe how she acted

was she drunk?

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She was definitely drunk however, it was a cash only bar so I don't know how much she drank.
However, she was sober enough to go back to her room, count her checks and proceed to tell the other bridesmaid 'how much money they made.'

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by csaburro

also the fact that she says it is normal to feel 'empty' after a wedding is alarming....I don't know about you ladies, but after I marry FH I certainly won't be feeling 'empty'....that may be a sign that she is not happy........that could be part of the problem.

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This is what she wrote to me:



I just wanted to tell you all this because you are going to go through it and , after talking to a few people, I hear that this sense of emptiness and confusion is Normal. I know you've been on the bridesmaid end of things many times but you havent been on this end.....you helped me get through the planning process because you knew everything and I didnt.....This maybe I can prepare you for. I had NO IDEA i would feel this way and knowing its normal makes me feel a little better.

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okay everyone has different experiences. i can tell you that many brides DO get sad after their wedding - that is perfectly normal

but by after the wedding i mean after the HM, after returning to work and the day to day - yeah the 'special day' is over but NOT A FEW MINUTES AFTER THE RECEPTION!

i cannot believe she embarassed herself like that - i ALMOST feel bad for her. Her marriage is pretyt much doomed bc the ONLY person she should want to be with at that moment is her HUSBAND and since she is so concerned with where YOU were - obviously her marriage is off to a rough start

i dont think you need people like this in your life, i think you should tell her how you feel - i am sorry this happened to you
i hate when things turn out so differently then what you planned. . . i am sure that is the last thing you were expecting on that day

i am still in shock about this.

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by csaburro

also the fact that she says it is normal to feel 'empty' after a wedding is alarming....I don't know about you ladies, but after I marry FH I certainly won't be feeling 'empty'....that may be a sign that she is not happy........that could be part of the problem.

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This is what she wrote to me:



I just wanted to tell you all this because you are going to go through it and , after talking to a few people, I hear that this sense of emptiness and confusion is Normal. I know you've been on the bridesmaid end of things many times but you havent been on this end.....you helped me get through the planning process because you knew everything and I didnt.....This maybe I can prepare you for. I had NO IDEA i would feel this way and knowing its normal makes me feel a little better.

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okay everyone has different experiences. i can tell you that many brides DO get sad after their wedding - that is perfectly normal

but by after the wedding i mean after the HM, after returning to work and the day to day - yeah the 'special day' is over but NOT A FEW MINUTES AFTER THE RECEPTION!

i cannot believe she embarassed herself like that - i ALMOST feel bad for her. Her marriage is pretyt much doomed bc the ONLY person she should want to be with at that moment is her HUSBAND and since she is so concerned with where YOU were - obviously her marriage is off to a rough start

i dont think you need people like this in your life, i think you should tell her how you feel - i am sorry this happened to you
i hate when things turn out so differently then what you planned. . . i am sure that is the last thing you were expecting on that day

i am still in shock about this.

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Posted by csaburro

oh boy, sorry about your dog.....that must have been awful for you.

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Posted by TGs Lady 22908

Wow! I'm sorry you had to deal with her crazyness.

...I can tell from her behavior (which you've probably already figured out) is that sumthin' ain't right.

Why would you care if your BP left you after the reception?? My entire BP left like 10 minutes after it was over, and we met them at the hotel like an hour later. Like some other ladies said, the only person who I would have had a fit if they left is my husband. Also, the fact the she's e-mailing you on her honeymoon is strange to me.

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by TGs Lady 22908

Wow! I'm sorry you had to deal with her crazyness.

...I can tell from her behavior (which you've probably already figured out) is that sumthin' ain't right.

Why would you care if your BP left you after the reception?? My entire BP left like 10 minutes after it was over, and we met them at the hotel like an hour later. Like some other ladies said, the only person who I would have had a fit if they left is my husband. Also, the fact the she's e-mailing you on her honeymoon is strange to me.

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i am the HUGEST online freak. i am on all day between this site, LIF, AOL etc. I go on from my phone all the time

on my HM the ONLY time i even though of going online was when i was LEAVING and we were waiting for the shuttle and we couldnt do anything bc we had to sit with the luggage!!!

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Posted by snwb08

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by snwb08

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

What makes me wonder is 'why did she even CARE where I was after the wedding?' She was with her husband
She is not a 14 year old girl we left at the school dance
she is a 31 year old WOMAN who was at the reception hall with her HUSBAND.

I was waiting for her at the bar with the rest of her family and friends.

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that was going to be my question - was she alone or wasn't she with her husband?

that is totally bizarre and strange in my opinion. I've done stupid things drunk but i can't see having a total meltdown like that... i mean who cares if you left me as long as my husband is there with me on our wedding day?

i've tried really hard to weed out the psychos in my life; sounds like you might need to cut her out - sorry you had to deal with this and EWWW i can't believe she's telling you shower details! I've called myself anti-bride (my sister got me the anti-bride planner ) but i love helping people with their wedding stuff! it's not right that she tried to spoil it for you!

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I got her the same 'antibride' planner
and yes, she was with her husband. She was not alone. She was also with their two friends from california and her parents.
who was just saying 'calm down honey'

If it was me and FH, my fh would have shook me and been like 'GET A HOLD OF YOURSELF'

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mine would have left me there. or thrown me underneath the shower and said 'sober up'. [it's been done ]

I just read this post. LOLOL

Yes, that planner is really cute! I honestly did so much for her and enjoyed it.
Now I feel like all my efforts were wasted on a spoiled, petty, insecure brat

loved that planner! i thought it was so funny and cute; i bought it for my friend also.

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by snwb08

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by snwb08

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

What makes me wonder is 'why did she even CARE where I was after the wedding?' She was with her husband
She is not a 14 year old girl we left at the school dance
she is a 31 year old WOMAN who was at the reception hall with her HUSBAND.

I was waiting for her at the bar with the rest of her family and friends.

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that was going to be my question - was she alone or wasn't she with her husband?

that is totally bizarre and strange in my opinion. I've done stupid things drunk but i can't see having a total meltdown like that... i mean who cares if you left me as long as my husband is there with me on our wedding day?

i've tried really hard to weed out the psychos in my life; sounds like you might need to cut her out - sorry you had to deal with this and EWWW i can't believe she's telling you shower details! I've called myself anti-bride (my sister got me the anti-bride planner ) but i love helping people with their wedding stuff! it's not right that she tried to spoil it for you!

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I got her the same 'antibride' planner
and yes, she was with her husband. She was not alone. She was also with their two friends from california and her parents.
who was just saying 'calm down honey'

If it was me and FH, my fh would have shook me and been like 'GET A HOLD OF YOURSELF'

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mine would have left me there. or thrown me underneath the shower and said 'sober up'. [it's been done ]

I just read this post. LOLOL

Yes, that planner is really cute! I honestly did so much for her and enjoyed it.
Now I feel like all my efforts were wasted on a spoiled, petty, insecure brat

loved that planner! i thought it was so funny and cute; i bought it for my friend also.

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

you handled yourself a lot better than I would have. My response:

'It's Midnight Hun...you've turned into a pumpkin, chill the heck out...weddin'gs over. BE AN ADULT.'

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