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Jna2010 Posted: Jan 21, 2009 09:00 PM

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honestly ive never been to a wedding where anyone's needed ID!! anyway anyone whos not legal is prob with a parent and wouldnt let them get crazy drunkeness

FutureMrs.M Posted: Jan 21, 2009 09:04 PM

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I actually have been id at a wedding. it really depends on the clients/guest for the night. If they know there will be a lot of underage drinkers they ABSOLUTELY will ID. And if they see someone who is underage drinking they may sick the matrie de' (sp) on that person, and take away the drink and if they repeatedly find that person drinking they will ask them to leave. And if they catch many adults serving underage people they WILL close the bar entirely. Like the other girls said whether ne1 likes it or not it is a law and we cant change that.

lori7570 Posted: Jan 21, 2009 09:10 PM

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I have to agree with everyone...there is no way around this.

FallBride2010 Posted: Jan 21, 2009 09:12 PM

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Posted by jayepyt

so if a parent gets a drink for their child can the hall get in trouble and the hall doesnt know

yes, they probably could. and the parent could get in huge trouble, too. providing a;cohol to a minor...even if it's a parent is a big offense. Your family should understand this and not give you a hard time

vnv126 Posted: Jan 21, 2009 09:12 PM

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I agree with ID. I went to a wedding and the bartender ID me. I think it's good. Sorry.

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Jan 21, 2009 09:38 PM

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I get ID'ed at 34. All the time. it's the LAW. If my hall wants to ID my underage guests, go ahead... cause you know what?

It's a legal issue... if someone underage drinks at your wedding and gets alcohol poisoning or gets hurt... they can sue the hall, and if they get hurt bad enough and want more money they can sue you.

At 19, I can see how you think this is ridiculous... but everything is in place for the protection of the hall and for you. Suck it up, and be an adult.

little j Posted: Jan 21, 2009 10:21 PM

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maybe somehow you can turn this into a positive...or a not so obvious thing. well...there is always an after party!!! and all those under 21 can at least be the designated drivers to it, right?

jayepyt Posted: Jan 21, 2009 10:22 PM

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Posted by little j

maybe somehow you can turn this into a positive...or a not so obvious thing. well...there is always an after party!!! and all those under 21 can at least be the designated drivers to it, right?

its on a sunday

SummerGroom10 Posted: Jan 21, 2009 10:51 PM

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Just have the parents get the drinks for the kids... what the hall doesnt know won't hurt them... Don't be surprised if they try to enforce it though...

jayepyt Posted: Jan 21, 2009 10:53 PM

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Posted by SummerGroom10

Just have the parents get the drinks for the kids... what the hall doesnt know won't hurt them... Don't be surprised if they try to enforce it though...

rocketsummer17 Posted: Jan 21, 2009 10:58 PM

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Posted by SummerGroom10

Just have the parents get the drinks for the kids... what the hall doesnt know won't hurt them... Don't be surprised if they try to enforce it though...

i wouldnt try anything funny. you are all underage, and the hall can and will kick you out if they see people blantantly ignoring their rules

FutureMrs.M Posted: Jan 21, 2009 10:59 PM

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Posted by rocketsummer17

Posted by SummerGroom10

Just have the parents get the drinks for the kids... what the hall doesnt know won't hurt them... Don't be surprised if they try to enforce it though...
i wouldnt try anything funny. you are all underage, and the hall can and will kick you out if they see people blantantly ignoring their rules

ITA!

jayepyt Posted: Jan 21, 2009 11:00 PM

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Posted by FutureMrs.M

Posted by rocketsummer17

Posted by SummerGroom10

Just have the parents get the drinks for the kids... what the hall doesnt know won't hurt them... Don't be surprised if they try to enforce it though...
i wouldnt try anything funny. you are all underage, and the hall can and will kick you out if they see people blantantly ignoring their rules

ITA!

ok ok i wont

DnT2010 Posted: Jan 21, 2009 11:02 PM

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i wouldnt mess with this.. the hall reserves the right to KICK YOU GUYS OUT if a LAW.. a very CLEAR and common law is being broken.. not worth the chance. sorry...

Alexandra17 Posted: Jan 21, 2009 11:08 PM

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Posted by little j

i never had to show ID at a wedding though.

maybe do something like the bracelets idea or a button or something so people dont need to keep taking their IDs to the bar.

I did and omg me and my cousin got in sooo much trouble, he got me a drink and the bartender saw and we almost got kicked out of the hotel