If DH ever cheated.......

Moehick Posted: Feb 01, 2005 09:00 PM

If DH ever cheated.......

All this talk about people cheating got me wondering what the LIW ladies would do if it happened to them.

swags1016 Posted: Feb 01, 2005 09:27 PM

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He knows Lorena Bobbitt!

RedHead Posted: Feb 01, 2005 09:34 PM

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beat the living sh!t out of him

sarahthegreat Posted: Feb 01, 2005 09:39 PM

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i hope he never has to find out.....

Flylilgrl Posted: Feb 01, 2005 09:46 PM

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I agree with the Lorena Bobbit comment. Ide definately cut it up and stuff it down his throat. Thats how much cheating means to me.

boosh78201 Posted: Feb 01, 2005 10:11 PM

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Beat the crap out of him, kick him out of the house, burn his clothes and then divorce him.

lolita4life Posted: Feb 01, 2005 10:24 PM

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i cant say for sure b/c im not in that situation. i would assume that i would forgive but never forget. but knowing me i would always bring it up to make him feel bad about it and we'd have a really sh!tty relationship..... BUT if he had an AFFAIR it would be over.

Jax430 Posted: Feb 01, 2005 10:28 PM

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That would be the end of our marriage..I'd be devestated!

Moehick Posted: Feb 01, 2005 11:23 PM

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Man, we have some tough ladies on this site. I would definitely kick *** and kick him out!

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Feb 02, 2005 06:58 AM

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im pretty sure it would end our marriage because i dont think that trust would ever be there again. i think that if there isnt trust there isnt really a relationship so i would show him the door via the end of my foot

lilmrs Posted: Feb 02, 2005 09:46 AM

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Not having ever been in this situation, I would like to believe that I would try to save my marriage and get to the root of his cheatin, go to some counseling, try to forgive and forget. If that did not work then I would opt for a divorce.

Janice Posted: Feb 02, 2005 10:24 AM

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Don't tell my DH, but I don't think it would end my marriage..if he had an affair, then it would probably be over. I would seek consoling, and if we had kids, def try to forgive and forget, DH would be on lock down then. I don't know, I pray it never happens

Kriss2c Posted: Feb 02, 2005 10:32 AM

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Divorce, there is no question and I would expect the same if the shoe were on the other foot.

rdaley Posted: Feb 02, 2005 10:40 AM

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I would be so sad and hurt, I can't imagine. I would say now my initial reaction is divorce but being I was never in that position (and hope to never be), I can't say for sure what I would do. May as well divorce cause our relationship would never be the same to me.

Anniegrl Posted: Feb 02, 2005 10:51 AM

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Not only would I kick HIS a$$, but I'd hunt the
b!tch down and kick HER a$$ too (if she knew he was married, that is).

I'd divorce him in a heartbeat. There's no way I'd ever be able to forgive anyone for disrespecting me like that......

MCDO15 Posted: Feb 02, 2005 11:03 AM

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Posted by Anniegrl

but I'd hunt the b!tch down and kick HER a$$ too (if she knew he was married, that is).

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what did she do? i never under stand why people want to go other the other person who may be clueless about a marrige...and even if she knew, the person husband ought to be the first person to say im married and walk away

JimmysBride Posted: Feb 02, 2005 11:10 AM

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Posted by MCDO15

Posted by Anniegrl

but I'd hunt the b!tch down and kick HER a$$ too (if she knew he was married, that is).

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what did she do? i never under stand why people want to go other the other person who may be clueless about a marrige...and even if she knew, the person husband ought to be the first person to say im married and walk away

Because there are women out there that don't give a crap if a guy is married and they will still pursue and pressure and seduce until they bed the guy. They have no shame in home-wrecking so (if they know the guy is married and still continued) they should face some consequences too.

nov04LIbride Posted: Feb 02, 2005 11:12 AM

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I would first go Lorena on him, then serve him divorce papers so fast he wouldn't know what hit him. If he ever has any $, I would make sure I got it all in the settlement.

JimmysBride Posted: Feb 02, 2005 11:12 AM

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As for me -- oh, it would be ugly. Because I would kick his cheating arse and probably take him back... just so I could torture him about it for the rest of our lives together... until I finally decided to do it back to him (just when he thought everything was good again) and THEN divorce him. It would mean YEARS of misery for both of us.

MCDO15 Posted: Feb 02, 2005 11:14 AM

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Posted by JimmysBride

Posted by MCDO15

Posted by Anniegrl

but I'd hunt the b!tch down and kick HER a$$ too (if she knew he was married, that is).

......

what did she do? i never under stand why people want to go other the other person who may be clueless about a marrige...and even if she knew, the person husband ought to be the first person to say im married and walk away

Because there are women out there that don't give a crap if a guy is married and they will still pursue and pressure and seduce until they bed the guy. They have no shame in home-wrecking so (if they know the guy is married and still continued) they should face some consequences too.

last time i said 'No' that was the end of story.. a women that still trys to get a guy that is married, there could be no future with anyway because who is to say it coudlnt happen again?

Yes the women has a role in affiar but the married person (husband) has the power and control of the sitatution.... there is no excuse

jmo....