if u could know bout ur shower would u?....

gina409 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 08:39 PM

if u could know bout ur shower would u?....

so my sisters were aksing me all these questions bout what i want/where i want it etc etc...so i was giving them ideas when they said do u want to be in on it..so we dont mess it up lol...and im not sure now..part of me wants to be surprised but part says then i can know when it is to look ok and help them out as much as i can...what would u do?

mcbride62009 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 08:41 PM

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I would want to know but I dont.

9509Bride Posted: Mar 15, 2009 08:44 PM

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As mentioned before I am a showerzilla. So yes, I would want to know. I dont like surprises.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Mar 15, 2009 08:45 PM

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i know the date and place, but dont know any of the games being played, or the prizes... i know about the cp's but i dont knw about any other decorations.... so i do like to know some stuff

AugustBridein09 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 08:47 PM

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I WISH!!!! I feel like I am the def PARTY 'thrower' in the family and my cousins and mom just don't know enough about it while I've been to 6 showers in the last 2 years.

Dreemer107 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 08:47 PM

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i want to know...i like surprises, but for stuff like this i like to be in charge of planning but sadly, i am not allowed to know anything...

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 08:48 PM

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i am dying to know and swear that I would want to know but i think part of me likes the element of surprise. I trust the people planning, im very laid back and I would feel bad dictating every decision. Fh said to me 'Just trust that the people who care about you are working hard to make this a very special day. You dont need to be in on it.' And I think he is right. (did i just say that? lol)

GT143EA Posted: Mar 15, 2009 08:49 PM

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Id want to know when and where but that is it. I only know where it is but not when

FutureMrsC614 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 09:14 PM

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No I don't want to know anything **hint hint lisa**

bean1121 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 09:18 PM

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I dont think you should you know, i dont want to know! just helped my mom with the favors but you only get one and i think its one less thing to think about or stress about
and no I am not going to tell you......

gina409 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 09:19 PM

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Posted by bean1121

I dont think you should you know, i dont want to know! just helped my mom with the favors but you only get one and i think its one less thing to think about or stress about
and no I am not going to tell you......

hahha hi bean

come on u know u guys r not going to be able to trick me anyway...and i swear if i walk into a parrty in my pjs im going to kill all of u lol

MLAngelo Posted: Mar 15, 2009 09:21 PM

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I am So happy I know. I can look my best, I know its at a place I like, and I can prepare for the day (losing weight in time, making sure I don't plan anything, etc.)

I wish I was more involved but my BMs are being all secretive about the actual plans. I want to decide where the food comes from but my MOH won't let me so I am SUGGESTING.

EmiNoa628 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 09:52 PM

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I'm 50/50 about it.. My sister told me the same thing and I'm soo undecided!!

I think a surprise will be cool.. Just seeing everyone scramble and try to make things perfect just for ME!!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 10:00 PM

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I dont want to know a single thing!

meara Posted: Mar 15, 2009 10:04 PM

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I do know about my shower date and place b/c I never would have been around otherwise. . and I'm okay with it. . in some ways I wish it could be a surprise but just know it never would have worked!!

alli3131 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 10:04 PM

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I just had my shower today and I knew about it. I knew the date and the place but there were still many surprises and even if you know it doesnt take away from any of the fun...believe me!!!

MrsSM09 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 10:06 PM

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Id' like to know...just so I can get myself all dolled up

bean1121 Posted: Mar 15, 2009 10:10 PM

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like how you we werent able to trick you for your engagement!! ohhh

KerriJohnS Posted: Mar 15, 2009 10:15 PM

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If they needed my help I would so be way more than willing to help them out. But I would prefer to be surprised. I never get to be surprised about things and I somehow always kinda find out about them.

MirabellaNYC Posted: Mar 15, 2009 10:16 PM

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What's strange is normally I HATE surprises, but for the bridal shower I definitely want to be surprised!
I mean, we know we're gonna have one, who would be invited, and what we registered for...so basically I'd like to leave the rest up to my VIP's...