If you found out

Original post by dazies1011

Jul 06, 2008 08:12 PM

You were pregnant now/before the wedding what would you do?
NOOOO I'm not !!!! Just a hypothetical question.

KimiDanny1010 Posted: Jul 06, 2008 11:20 PM

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this is the reason i'm on the BC... but since its not 100% i know it could still happen... i would keep the baby and cancel the wedding to put that towards raising the baby !

but this is why FH and I are extremely careful to prevent having this happen !!!

lanamanitta Posted: Jul 07, 2008 12:53 AM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Posted by dazies1011

You were pregnant now/before the wedding what would you do?
NOOOO I'm not just a hypothetical.

Oh my god Chris... the way I read that was different than the way you intended it! I was like what? it's not just a hypothetical question?!?!?!?!

I thought about this yesterday, because I was late . . . . I'm not now, but we decided that at this point, we'd do it!!! It's the whole point of marriage and if this were 'the old days' our wedding wouldn't be so far away . . . .. we are subject to the bookings, schedules, and finances . . . . . but babies come when they should!!! You decided this was the father of your children, and just because you can't afford or the halls can't accommodate your wedding in 6 months doesn't change that!!!

My Mom would freak, but hey . ... . when they see their grandbabies, they soften up . . . .

flairforfashion Posted: Jul 07, 2008 09:41 AM

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Holy crap- I don't know! If it was right now, I would be getting married like a week after I had it and that means I would not be 100% hot! So, I would probably push the wedding back a year but I wouldn't have a big wedding.

Cacarina Posted: Jul 07, 2008 09:42 AM

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(enough said!)

VickiR510 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 09:44 AM

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Id be upset for going 5 yrs not getting preggers only to have a baby bump for my wedding day! lol But oh well Im marrying him anyway so what could you do. U have it & we would be ecstatic after the shock of course! lol lol lol

Future Mrs Roo Posted: Jul 07, 2008 10:42 AM

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load the gun!

I would probably push the wedding back, for the all that money I want to enjoy the open bar!

Jsquared279 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 10:53 AM

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I WOULD MOVE THE WEDDING UP! Since I would be 7 months on our wedding day and be HUGE! lol! I pray that doesn't happen though!

vicky1125 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 10:54 AM

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have the baby & either push the wedding forward or back.

Dr Meg Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:09 AM

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I don't know what I would do. Especially since FH and I don't want kids, and do everything in our power to make sure we don't.

MEMEJOR Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:13 AM

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omg i was just talking to the fh about this last night... its a bitter sweet kind of thing... caus eu know u are marryig this man but u have been planning this wedding... i am not sure if i would push it up or push it back... i guess it would depend how far along i was and how close the date was

fdny3113 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:32 AM

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Celeste617 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 01:25 PM

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It all depends on the timing... I'd still want to have the wedding if I wasn't too big... But otherwise, we'd cancel the wedding, have the baby and then have a very small ceremony & dinner afterward. We've been together for over 9 years now...what's another year?!? BUT *praying* please don't let this happen to me!!! hehe

mls282 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 01:41 PM

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That's it... this post scared me enough... NO S E X till the wedding!!! FH is going to love that idea!!! LOL!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 01:44 PM

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Be shocked and then excited. Plus I'm far enough away to have a baby and then be back on a ridiculous fitness schedule. Not that I'm hoping for one!

lilpiggy742 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 04:28 PM

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oh man,thats scary to even think about...whats even scarier is that i am taking a test tomorrow because im a few days late...so if i am *praying to god im not* i really have no idea...id really have to weigh out my options...

sumerbride09 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 05:06 PM

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id still be super excited. I love babies and cant wait to have them. its the marrying the love of my life part thats most imp. to me not the huge weddings. Id have something small before i get huge and can still fit in my dress and a larger celebration after the baby comes. Or just push up the wedding if i can. i guess this is one of the go with the flow things if it happens that way...

meli722 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 05:08 PM

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keep it my daughter is dying for a 'baby sister not baby brother!!' lol but yeah i would keep it , even though i might not be ready right now, but i have some problems which i have to stay on medication so who knows if i can even carry another one, so if i can w/o medicine, then i would keep it then..... cut/ burn/ tie/ throw out/ bury my TUBES lol

meli722 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 05:09 PM

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Posted by lilpiggy742

oh man,thats scary to even think about...whats even scarier is that i am taking a test tomorrow because im a few days late...so if i am *praying to god im not* i really have no idea...id really have to weigh out my options...

good luck!

mcbride62009 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 06:04 PM

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I know someone this happend too but luckly she didn't have the date set bc her bf didnt pop the question but bought a ring. She is getting married in a few weeks. Planned everything in a month. We have having a Bach/Shower for her this weekend!

I would have the baby and get married when planned if it was now. I wouldn't fit in the dress I ordered but it wouldn't be the end of the world.

Although, I am not saying I want that!