I have 3 weddings that we were invited to go to and I jsut found out one of my old coworkers/bridesmaids is having a informal wedding in May. That would be #4.
Wedding #1: First that I knew about, a BM destination wedding in Florida.... October
Wedding #2: The friends we made down here in GA...had NO idea we'd be invited until the guy asked for our address...in Harrisburg, PA. In August
Wedding #3: Got the invite about 2-3 weeks ago, in Vegas, May 7th....she is a friend I met through my old job in NY, had never met her, but she flew all the way from Minnesota for our wedding in NY.
Wedding #4: informal wedding of bridesmaid/old coworker sometime in May....she thinks it will be a Tuesday.
Do I try for ALL or choose???
Butterflybride
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Hmm...there are pluses and minuses to all of those. I think it would be really hard to try and choose one. I know I would have a tough time deciding. Sorry I couldn't help!
btrflygrl
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well, we thought we could choose more than one...but I don't know if I can make all 4!!!
jozieb0925
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If you can afford to do all of them, I would. And since the dates all seem to be spread out, it seems doable.
Also, who do you feel closest to out of the four is something to think about?
Otherwise, I was going to say you should probably go to #3 because they flew out for yours and Vegas is fun!!!
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I'm guessing since 1 & 4 were in your bridal party you're closests with them?
swags1016
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I would think 1,3 and 4. With number 3 I think you really should if she flew all the way in for yours.
juju
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I would go to 1, 3 and 4. As for the new friend, I would send my regrets along with a nice gift.
#4 was a BM for you? Then if I had to choose, I would say #4 or #3.
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If you have the time and $, of course go to all. If not, this is how I would prioritize them.
Wedding #1: First that I knew about, a BM destination wedding in Florida.... October
Wedding #4: informal wedding of bridesmaid/old coworker sometime in May....she thinks it will be a Tuesday.
Wedding #3: Got the invite about 2-3 weeks ago, in Vegas, May 7th....she is a friend I met through my old job in NY, had never met her, but she flew all the way from Minnesota for our wedding in NY.
Wedding #2: The friends we made down here in GA...had NO idea we'd be invited until the guy asked for our address...in Harrisburg, PA. In August
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1 & 4
btrflygrl
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this is SO tough because I care for all of them!
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Posted by swags1016
I would think 1,3 and 4. With number 3 I think you really should if she flew all the way in for yours.
I agree with this, but if you have the time (and money !) and care about them all, I'd say try to go to all of them!
