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If you passed away and had no kids

Original post by Janice

who would get your ring...only asking because my cousin reminded me the other day how when I first got engaged, my MIL asked that one night at dinner 'Who gets the ring if Janice dies?'

Stefanie Posted:

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I just asked my DH this question and he said that he's want me to be buried with it. I said, more than likely, it wouldn't go down with me. He said, I'd make sure it went down with you. Then he said, I wouldn't really be worried about the ring...I would just be hurting over you and how alone I'd be...

How sad!!!!
juju Posted:

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How morbid......but, I would leave it to my niece.

salsbride06 Posted:

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i said my sister. we have grown together and are so close. we have been through so much together and that is something that i think she deserves, and pass along. i know the fh has everything else that i own.

Butterflybride Posted:

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I would leave it with my DH

mrsmeri1104 Posted:

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My ring has 3 stones so I would give the big one to my sister and have her make the 2 smaller stones into necklaces or rings for her 2 daughters.

Shorty McBride Posted:

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Posted by mrsmeri1104

My ring has 3 stones so I would give the big one to my sister and have her make the 2 smaller stones into necklaces or rings for her 2 daughters.



great idea!
FeliciaDA Posted:

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Definitely my husband

HearzBellz Posted:

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Posted by ambersmom


Posted by Janice

who would get your ring...only asking because my cousin reminded me the other day how when I first got engaged, my MIL asked that one night at dinner 'Who gets the ring if Janice dies?'



Are you freakin' kidding??? Like she should care! I would have said 'The Tidybowl Man beeotch!!!'



I know then the next month she stole my wedding date away..oh I can only laugh about it now



oh my
KimmyKim7481 Posted:

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OOO they better bury me with it!! If they try to take it off my finger once I'm gone I may have to come back to life just to rip it outta their hands lol

dpli Posted:

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Posted by Janice

who would get your ring...only asking because my cousin reminded me the other day how when I first got engaged, my MIL asked that one night at dinner 'Who gets the ring if Janice dies?'



You need to tell you MIL that it is OK to have unspoken thoughts....

I would want my DH to have my E-ring, since he gave it to me, but my wedding band was my mom's and I would like it to be passed down to my niece.
janwinterbridejoy Posted:

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i also said my dh and if we die together then my brother

Jen_n_Dale Posted:

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I would let Dale have it and let him try and sell it to pay some bills.
eogara Posted:

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Posted by Janice

who would get your ring...only asking because my cousin reminded me the other day how when I first got engaged, my MIL asked that one night at dinner 'Who gets the ring if Janice dies?'



You should have told her it wasn't something she had to worry about since she'll be long gone by the time that happens

What an awful woman.
luvsbob4603 Posted:

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My dh will have the money but if we both die My sister andher huband i call him my brother. and Dh's brother& his wife will split the money amongs themselves.

Ronkonkomonga Posted:

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Posted by Janice

who would get your ring...only asking because my cousin reminded me the other day how when I first got engaged, my MIL asked that one night at dinner 'Who gets the ring if Janice dies?'




ILL! what a disgusting question for her to ask right after you got engaged. I would be pissed if my MIL said that to me.
amy&anthony Posted:

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I would say bury me with it. Its mine and I dont ever want to take it off. It means something to me.

JodiBabe Posted:

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I answered my DH but the fact is I already have a 23 year old daughter & I would want her to have it!

Jax430 Posted:

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My initial reaction was to say to bury me with it, but you can't bury people with jewelry in the Jewish religion. I'd want my DH to have it.

KathleenG Posted:

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My first thought would be to give it to DH, but I think it may be too much of a painful reminder to him. I think I would consider giving it to my sis since she is ten years younger and we no longer have a mom. It would be a fitting thing to do. I think it would be something my DH would want.

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