if you're not paying for your bms' makeup/hair

latinaj Posted: Feb 17, 2010 10:47 PM

if you're not paying for your bms' makeup/hair

are you asking them to have a particular hairstyle? or no?

futureMrsJSL Posted: Feb 17, 2010 10:48 PM

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No, they can wear it however they like.

Suzie4 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 10:48 PM

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I'm just going to give them a general idea of what I would like them to get but I want them to feel comfortable with their hairstyle so nothing too specific

Nina1010 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 10:50 PM

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Nah..not paying and not requiring them to have a certain style. I know my girls will want to convenience of having someone there onsite and will pay a lil extra for it.

runnerbride1023 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 10:51 PM

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I want it to be on the side, either in a low pony or in a slightly messy chignon. They can decide.

I am paying / choosing who they use for consistency but I dont want them to be clones of each other.

ETA - sorry I just realized i read the question wrong...

NovBride10 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 10:51 PM

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I'm going to let them decide how they want to wear their hair. I don't think they all have to look exactly the same.

jmgoncal Posted: Feb 17, 2010 11:05 PM

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Nope - they can do whatever they feel comfortable doing. I want them to feel 'pretty'. In fact, I'm not even requiring that they get their hair/makeup done.

lissylissa Posted: Feb 17, 2010 11:15 PM

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No im letting them do whatever they want to do with their hair

SoonToBMrsC Posted: Feb 17, 2010 11:18 PM

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I am telling them that they have to have their hair up, not talking a bun of course lol they can do a nice updo with curls hanging but i just don't want them to be half up and half down because thats how i'm wearing my hair. My MOH will also have hers half up half down.

grkbarbie Posted: Feb 17, 2010 11:20 PM

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honestly.. i have wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too many issues that i gave up at this point.

rather than come off as a bish... i just do the complete opposite and try not to care.

im having a LONGGGGGGGGGGGGGG meeting with my photo and video people.

MrsSx2 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 11:21 PM

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As long as its not too similar to mine, they can do what they want!

FallBride2010 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 11:22 PM

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I'm probably paying for their hair...but will not be telling them how to wear their hair. I want everyone to be happy with the way they look. I hate when people tell me how to do my hair, so I wouldnt tell someone.

Never2Part Posted: Feb 18, 2010 07:39 AM

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I'm letting them do whatever they want

little j Posted: Feb 18, 2010 07:50 AM

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im having mine all up...so i told them either down or half up/down. i still want the flowy/romantic look, so i suggested loose curls

Roccosgirl Posted: Feb 18, 2010 08:19 AM

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No..I am leaving that up to them

Lsorrent Posted: Feb 18, 2010 08:20 AM

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Nope

soontobecruz Posted: Feb 18, 2010 08:20 AM

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I don't care how they wear it. As long as it isn't identical to mine. I am wearing an updo. They can too it just needs to be different.

Also I asked them to have it done professionally, and no I am not paying for it. I have always paid to have my own hair done when in weddings. I will have someone at the house who can do their hair and she charges like $40 so it isn't a lot anyway

MikesBride2B Posted: Feb 18, 2010 08:27 AM

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I couldn't care less....I can't add that to the list of things to worry about.

AgaBride062610 Posted: Feb 18, 2010 08:31 AM

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hmm this is a good question.. i thought that I will tell them do whatever you want with your hair.. but now after reading this post maybe I will tell them just do not do anything similar to my hair