I'm actually starting to get scared.

I'm actually starting to get scared.

with less than 50 days left, i'm getting nervous. not to marry fh, but to stand up in front of everyone and be the center of attention...and there is still so much to do, tiny little things, plus we are moving and i'm looking for a job too...and then after the wedding, i'm nervous too...like will i be a good wife? will i suddenly stop taking care of myself? will we fight a lot? all these fears, NOT DOUBTS, but fears...i like how we are together now and although our life right now is crazy and in limbo, we are good together and i'm scared that will change. is this normal?

Re: I'm actually starting to get scared.

cocoa,
this is just the beginning of your two lives together....the wedding stresses me out completely as well, and once the stress of you finding a job and getting the wedding over with, you two will be fine.

get one 'little thing' done for the wedding at a time. try and do you programs one week, and the next something else.

i too JUST got a new job like 1 week ago, and i feel so much better now; not as much stress. as for you not being a good wife, that too takes time....i am sure you will be fine! enjoy the end of the planning....OK!!

Re: I'm actually starting to get scared.

OMG!! I have 260 days and I'm freaking out.. It makes me nervous..

but everyone has told me that your nervous at first, but then when you see FI it becomes surreal, your just really happy, and you forget about nerves, plus, your going to know almost everyone there so it will be fine.. GOOD LUCK.. it's only natural to feel like that

Re: I'm actually starting to get scared.

I have 52 days left...and I am not freaking out at all. I am a little nervous though. I dont like being the center of attention. I'm not really good with being in front of alot of people...But with over 170 people being invited to the wedding, I guess i better get used to it lol.

Re: I'm actually starting to get scared.

I still think of that sometimes....will I be a good wife? What if he doesn't want chicken for dinner and that's what we're having. He keeps reassuring me that it will be wonderful and I have to just keep believing that. I'm glad it's not just me