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I'm Scared girls

Original post by Toucan311

My dad was having pains last night in his limbs, back, and chest... today my mom called his dr and now he's in Good Sam getting some tests... my mom sounds pretty calm (shes usually NOT) so I dont know if I should be freaking out or not... I'm at work now b/c my mom told me its no big deal and not to go down to the ER... Its just hard to sit here and wait for news...

My dad does this thing where he 'rations' his BP medication and only takes it every few days! They think maybe its 'just' angina? I dont even know what t his all means!
Toucan311 Posted:

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Ok, so he did NOT have a heart attack. They believe that it is Angina pain and a possible small blockage. He's 64 and he still works - he does hard labor, moving boxes driving a truck, etc, and he runs/bikes 4-5 miles a day! The dr just thinks he's over-stressing his body. They're going to do a catheterization (sp) either today or tomorrow and then he'll come home. Thanks for the 's girls!
siffleuse319 Posted:

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There's nothing worse than worry. Remember...'Don't React without the facts'. My dad has had near fatal heart episodes...and that's what I have to psychotically say to myself when things go awry. Your dad is in good hands right now...there's no better place for him.

ant n tilde Posted:

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praying for your dad

and why do they ration their meds? is it to be cost effective?

sounds like something my parents would do . . .
Future Mulligan Posted:

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dont worry....if there is anything wrong they'll catch it and he is already at the hospital so there is no reason to get upset.....when i was 14 my dad was at a bar in brooklyn working (he was in a band played lead guitar) he wasnt feeling well that day and he started to have chest pains and other heart attack symptoms - his friends called an ambulance - he ended up having a heart attack - luckily they got him to the hospital in time and he survived - my dad was in his late 40's which is young and it was really scary he ended up having stents put in....now he is fine and doing well.....it was a really scary time so i know how scary it can be

i am worried about my own heart health b/c my grandfather, dad and his brother ALL had heart attacks/heart disease so its my genes
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

praying for your dad

and why do they ration their meds? is it to be cost effective?

sounds like something my parents would do . . .



They hate going to the doctor! So if they get a 3 month supply of medication, but stretch it to 6 months, they figure they have to go less often! Insane!
mariaobride Posted:

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i am sorry to hear I could only imagine how you feel not being there I am sure he is in good hands now and they will find out soon enough what is wrong
FinallyEngaged Posted:

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Dont worry i am sre everything will be ok
yelley77 Posted:

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oy vey.

I'm sending you hugs and prayers. call me if you need me!! I'll be over that way tonight
MrsHtobe Posted:

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for you Heather and that your dad feels betters soon!

My Mom has had lots of heart problems over the years, from a heart attack to angina to stents to angioplasties (spelling?). . .anyhoo, if you need to talk, FM me! My mom has been through it all, so I might be able to help!
Shelly9697 Posted:

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You & your dad are in my thoughts & prayers!!

cbcf Posted:

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Heather I hope everything is okay with your dad!!! I am sure it will be...keep positive!! And keep us updated!!!!

We are here for ya!!!
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by yelley77

oy vey.

I'm sending you hugs and prayers. call me if you need me!! I'll be over that way tonight



yelley77 Posted:

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Posted by yelley77

oy vey.

I'm sending you hugs and prayers. call me if you need me!! I'll be over that way tonight












lovebear7800 Posted:

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I hope everything is ok.
shcole08 Posted:

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aaah! Don't worry until you know if something is wrong. I am on BP medication and it very dangerous to not take it everyday! Tell him he needs to take care of himself!
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by shcole08

aaah! Don't worry until you know if something is wrong. I am on BP medication and it very dangerous to not take it everyday! Tell him he needs to take care of himself!



You try telling that to a 64 year old German man!!
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

praying for your dad

and why do they ration their meds? is it to be cost effective?

sounds like something my parents would do . . .



They hate going to the doctor! So if they get a 3 month supply of medication, but stretch it to 6 months, they figure they have to go less often! Insane!



OMG

first of all i was glad to read your update, i hope for continued good news.

and i have to tell you my parents are 67 and 60 and they went to the doctor for the first time in over TWENTY YEARS last year. . .bc i made a big deal about them going for my wedding!!! my mom hasnt been to the GYN since i was BORN!!!!!!!!

so i totally understand how frustrating it can be!!!
catsgirl Posted:

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, i hope everything is ok, at least your mom got him in getting test, i'll keep in my prayers.
AmorPeruano Posted:

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Dont worry, everythings gonna be fine !
KK Holiday Posted:

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oh no heather!!! I hope everything turns out ok!

keep us updated!!

if your mom says that things are ok for now, you should be able to trust her, but go to the hospital after work to check out the scene for yourself!

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