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I'M SOOOO UPSET!! PLEASE HELP LADIES!!!

Original post by hiswifey2011

I just came from my hall where i was supposed to be doing my finalizations. They informed me that they have us down for the wrong time slot. My invites are already out!

We're supposed to be 8:00- 1:00 and they have us down 8:30-1:30. What are my guests supposed to do for half hour??!! They said they are completely booked and can't do anything. I was told to right an 'oops letter' to my guests!! I'm soooo upset ... i dont need this stress 2 months before my wedding!

What to do??!!!
merbride Posted:

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people will be late anyway...the guests wont know the difference! make Leonards accomodate them with drinks/apps whether they like it or not!
dont stress out!!!!!!!
merbride Posted:

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people will be late anyway...the guests wont know the difference! make Leonards accomodate them with drinks/apps whether they like it or not!
dont stress out!!!!!!!
merbride Posted:

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people will be late anyway...the guests wont know the difference! make Leonards accomodate them with drinks/apps whether they like it or not!
dont stress out!!!!!!!
Im getting Married Posted:

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I agree if you have it in writing (even in an email) I would call them back in the AM and speak to the owner. They will have to accommadate your guests if they arrive early

evita2781 Posted:

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i'm so sorry this is happening but i would def talk to them and see what they can do to accomodate your guest. i hope everything works out
evita2781 Posted:

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Posted by sujeire

Chica don't worry. If your family is as Dominican as mine, they will show up half an hour late anyway. Don't stress about it. We latinos never show up on time.



sounds like us Filipinos - NEVER on time!
Cataverri Posted:

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Posted by sujeire

Chica don't worry. If your family is as Dominican as mine, they will show up half an hour late anyway. Don't stress about it. We latinos never show up on time.



I was ready to say the same thing. I'm Colombian and we never make it on time. Matter of fact my Wedding starts at 3:30 and my invitations say 3:00pm and I put half and hour earlier for the RH also. Don't worry!!!!!!!!!!!!!
VCanizalez Posted:

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I am so sorry chica...
If you have that paper in email or writing, DEF Show them the CONTRACT & Fight with that!!!
U never authorize the change so this is on UR side :) u can win this one...

I cant believe they did that to u chica!!

BUT on the other hand, you know us LATINOS (Not ALL but MOST of them) arrive LATE to parties....
But I am putting in my invite my ceremony is at 2:00 even though it will start at 2:30!

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Jules - You have it in writing from your BM, it's their fault. They should accomodate your guests for that half hour and not make you pay for an extra half hour.

Hope it all works out.
HeatherLynna Posted:

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ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!?!! You need to print out that email and go down there. Don't let them get away with that. They have to make it up to you in some way. BULL SHIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

anjelagain Posted:

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send an oops later and enjoy your later wedding i love that!!

MrsTarricone2B Posted:

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Posted by HeatherLynna

ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!?!! You need to print out that email and go down there. Don't let them get away with that. They have to make it up to you in some way. BULL SHIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTTT



ITA! If you have the original contract they HAVE to honor it. Maybe they can set up a room where your guests can have cocktails for a half hour before your CH starts? They absolutely should NOT be charging you more money!!!!!!
anjelagain Posted:

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def make them make it up to you somehow... paying for the cost to to fix it somehow

Moonmist09 Posted:

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print the letter and personally go to Leonards with your FH and demand that they

a. change the time to match what you had already stated in your e-mail

or

b. provide some kind of complimentary refreshments to your guests.

My sister got married at leonards in 2009 and there really is no where for guests to sit around except the main hall area, which, but its still workable
luvstruck Posted:

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Posted by JessNicole7EM

can they do some kind of hospitality for a 1/2 hour?


My RH does hospitality. for a 1/2hr before the ceremony where they just serve drinks passed butler style and such.



Mine does too. They should be able to help you out with this, at least....
ColliMac23 Posted:

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I wouldn't stress it too much most people are late anyway. DO they at least have a place your guests can go for that half hour to wait?

Lana and Johan Posted:

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Posted by sujeire

Chica don't worry. If your family is as Dominican as mine, they will show up half an hour late anyway. Don't stress about it. We latinos never show up on time.






FHs fam is like that too. We are making special invites for his side...lol
LBUDA Posted:

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Have you asked if they have a smaller room for a hospitality hour?

itbroi805 Posted:

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Posted by sujeire

Chica don't worry. If your family is as Dominican as mine, they will show up half an hour late anyway. Don't stress about it. We latinos never show up on time.



haha this!
itbroi805 Posted:

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like the other girls say....look for this time in writing from them and make them do something....a hospitality room?? I would also suggest making them throw in some extra or something.

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