In your relationship...

Original post by jgl

May 09, 2007 09:56 PM

who likes to stay up late/ who goes to bed early?
Who wakes up early/ who wakes up late?

FH and I are totaly waking up/bed time opposities!!!!

I was just talking to FMIL she was asking for my help next saturday. Before she hung up she said FH wanted to talk to me. I told her I would call him when we hung up (she was on her cell) I called, no answer... She calls me back. FH is sound asleep and snoring (it was 930pm tonight) haha

So it got me thinking about how FH and I are so different as far as sleeping habits go and such..

I will roll out of bed the latest I possibly can, giving myself just enough time, so i'm not late. At night I like to stay up late. I usually hit the hay about 11-12 depending if I'm wrapped up in an episode of law & order.

FH on the other hand... gets up at 430-5 am to go to the gym then get showered and ready for work. And often he will be in bed by 9-930 the latest

I just told FMIL that if FH thinks he is going to wake me up at 5am in the morning because he is going to the gym Im going to kick his butt!! haha.

So.. after that long explaination.. anyone else total wake up/bed time opposites with FH?

poisonivy918 Posted: May 09, 2007 11:16 PM

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me and my fh barely ever go to bed at the same time. I usually stay up late, but since I've been sick lately, than tmw have an early flight I go to bed early.

I always wake up first too, no matter what. I'm just a light sleeper. I wish he'd go to bed earlier, I hate when the dogs wake me up if he comes in late.

did you see law & order lastnight? the guy who killed his whole family & gf

Kimbalina Posted: May 09, 2007 11:27 PM

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Speaking of which.. goodnight!

failurebydsign Posted: May 10, 2007 01:35 AM

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um..he is passed out by like 1030 or 11..and i can stay up until like 5am and get up 3 hours later and do what i gotta do..

i have always been like this..

i used to watch late night tv with my mom wheni was like 4 or 5

AmandaLynn04 Posted: May 10, 2007 07:12 AM

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I'm such a dork.... we go to bed together every night, no later than 10pm usually.

In the morning, I wake up just after 6, and I wake him up after I get out of the shower.

On weekends, when we're home, he usually sleeps longer than me, I just can't manage to stay in bed after 8am or so.

korndoggie Posted: May 10, 2007 07:59 AM

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We go to bed at around 11:30-12 on work nights and I have to be up an hour earlier than he does. I really need to start going to bed earlier...

But I like going to bed together!!

Mizzdimple Posted: May 10, 2007 08:25 AM

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he is an early sleeper...and I get home late on the weekdays so I tend to stay up longer to catch up with stuff (LIW) hahah

Super2star Posted: May 10, 2007 08:28 AM

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FH and I looooooooooooove to sleep....thats the best...waking up late and just laying in bed on the weekends....I wake up early...not by choice...its to go to the gym at 6am..

AMGBride2008 Posted: May 10, 2007 08:33 AM

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We used to be like that when we first started dating but now we're on the same sleeping schedule... that's probably because we live together but both of us are in bed by 10 the latest during the week... on the weekends we stay up a little later and get up around the same time, anywhere between 9 and 10.

FH used to be able to sleep alllll day but not so much anymore, he says it makes him feel icky.

dream426 Posted: May 10, 2007 08:34 AM

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It all depends. He could go to bed early and I can go to bed late. Or he can go to bed late and I can go to bed early. Same with getting up. Or we can go to bed at the same time and get up at the same time. :)

JeanetteandSteve Posted: May 10, 2007 08:36 AM

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we're weird. we both like to stay up till midnight or even later, and we both like to sleep in as late as possible before we'll be late...BUT we don't like it. lol...we are both morning people and once we're up we're really happy...and we both find that the earlier we get up, the better mood we're in for the rest of the day.

...but we still always wanna stay up late at night!! it's annoying.

Jesses Girl Posted: May 10, 2007 08:38 AM

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i get up at like 5:15 or 5:25 depending on the snooze button. and i usualy go to bed btw 10-11 on weeknites (bc i have school n work)

fh is a sanitation worker so he usually sleeps to 11 goes to his first job then his 2nd job and gets home at 3 am. well it varies. sometimes 3 sometimes midnite.

Julybride08 Posted: May 10, 2007 08:43 AM

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Were the same. Both like to stay up and sleep late. So no problem here. thank god!

violiz Posted: May 10, 2007 09:37 AM

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We're definately opposites.

He's a late sleeper and I'm coming to be more and more an early bird. I used to not be, but man it's kickin in now!

I'm hoping this will work out for us when we have kids--he does the late night stuff, and I got the early shift

missigreg Posted: May 10, 2007 09:42 AM

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omg... i would love to got o sleep the min i get home from work.. and get up at 6am....

FH loves to stay up late..... but likes to wake up early also.... he feels like if he sleeps he's mising out on something.... which i dont think too much is going on at like 2am...

jsta76 Posted: May 10, 2007 10:16 AM

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

I'm the early to bed, early to rise one in this relationship. I am tired by 8pm but force myself to stay up until 10/10:30.

I'm the same way, during the week the latest I usually go to bed is 11.

FH works nights and I work days so he's a total nightowl when he's home. He'll 'tuck' me into bed and leave the room usually to return around 5am. His sched ***** !!!!! I don't know how he does it. On weekends I usually try to sleep in but i'm usually up around 9am.

MrsD71208 Posted: May 10, 2007 11:52 AM

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I get up at 5:30 and FH gets up at 4:45. We hang out every night until about 8:30-9:00 and then I am asleep before 11 and he is alseep by about 10:30. On the weekends, I am off so I go to bed when I am tired..he works 6 days a week so he's alseep on Friday night by 11 the latest. We are basically on the same scheduele...when we move in together, we'll have it much better!!!!!

megzzie Posted: May 10, 2007 11:58 AM

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On week nights, FH definitely goes to bed earlier than I do. On weekends, we stay up til around the same time - we usually say good night at 1 am (we don't live together). We probably wake up around the same time (around 9:30-10 on weekends)