inhidding08 ... i think its time to come out ...

so yes I am inhidding08 .... I have been reluctant to come out for several reasons main one because it was to hard ...
*SIDE NOTE: for my lurkers and haters … talk what ever shiit you want say I told you so do whatever ... I never once cared what anyone thought about me and I am not about to start now* …

Anyway For those who missed my post let me sum it up I will no longer be getting married on April 20, 2008 … these past couple weeks I will admit have been hard ; I have been mad sad and confused… but it has gotten better some days are easier then others … I have been searching for a good reason for this happening but I cant find one … I know everyone says better it happen now than after but believe me that doesn’t help … I don’t know what the future brings me but I will live by what I preach …every thing happens for a reason … I am a strong and independent and I know I am going to get thru this … I plan on doing me for a little bit … do some traveling and maybe hopefully buy a house or something by the end of the year ...


I would like to thank everyone who gave me advice and lent support in the original posts and in FM … Also I would like to say how wonderful this webstie is and I am glad i found it ..I am sure I will need it again one day... I don’t know how often I will be on but I do want to say I hope all of you have the exact wedding you always dreamed of … CONGRATS TO ALL YOU 2008 BRIDES its your year enjoy!!!!!

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I am glad that you are doing ok. I think you are right everything happens for a reason. I wish good luck, and happy house hunting!!

I'm so sorry!!! be strong and things will fall in place for the better!

I am so sorry you are going through crap right now! Keep your head up and try to stay strong!

im sorry

its good to hear that you are doing okay and staying strong.

you are right - you should do some traveling! i think it would be a great experience for you...

everything does happen for a reason - i just think sometimes it takes us a long time to figure out why....everything always works itself out in the end....

like kim said, good luck and happy house hunting!!

Sorry to hear that I know it that must be very hard for you but you are right 'do a little me time for yourself' you'll learn even more about yourself I wish for you to have as much strength as you need and eventually down the line it will get better for you . Many hugs

im so sorry to hear that you are going through this everything happens for a reason, im glad your being strong and you should definatley take lots of me time !!

I'm sorry Tanya - I'm sure things will work out the way they are supposed to! Good luck house hunting!

I'm sorry to hear this. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck to you!!!

Be strong!!! It sounds like you already are!!!! Great advice to live by 'everything happens for a reason' I live by that as well!!!!!

Please visit us!!! You are always welcome!!

You sound really confident and sure of yourself. Best wishes, you'll be fine!!!

I am sorry. I know it may sound redundant but i am happy that you are being so strong and taking days one at a time. Take some time off, travel and feel at ease with your self. Dont worry about giving anyone explanations or answering questions.

You're right, everything does happen for a reason. Stay strong

You will be ok!! You are a strong women and will get through this on top!!!

Wishing you all the best!!

i'm sorry you are dealing with this---but you're right....everything DOES happen for a reason. you are a strong woman and you will make it thru this even stronger than before!

OH NO Tanya, I am so sorry this is happening to you i know words can't help take away the pain, and its alot easier for people to say you are better off and things will get better. And they will but that doesn't take away the pain you are going through. That day will come when you say to yourself that you are better off, that things ARE better. In the meantime take care of yourself, do what makes you happy and really get to know yourself and what you want in life. I wish you the best of luck

You're a very sweet and beautiful girl who will get what she deserves