inhidding08 ... i think its time to come out ...

Original post by blu6385

Jan 08, 2008 08:46 AM

so yes I am inhidding08 .... I have been reluctant to come out for several reasons main one because it was to hard ...
*SIDE NOTE: for my lurkers and haters … talk what ever shiit you want say I told you so do whatever ... I never once cared what anyone thought about me and I am not about to start now* …

Anyway For those who missed my post let me sum it up I will no longer be getting married on April 20, 2008 … these past couple weeks I will admit have been hard ; I have been mad sad and confused… but it has gotten better some days are easier then others … I have been searching for a good reason for this happening but I cant find one … I know everyone says better it happen now than after but believe me that doesn’t help … I don’t know what the future brings me but I will live by what I preach …every thing happens for a reason … I am a strong and independent and I know I am going to get thru this … I plan on doing me for a little bit … do some traveling and maybe hopefully buy a house or something by the end of the year ...

I would like to thank everyone who gave me advice and lent support in the original posts and in FM … Also I would like to say how wonderful this webstie is and I am glad i found it ..I am sure I will need it again one day... I don’t know how often I will be on but I do want to say I hope all of you have the exact wedding you always dreamed of … CONGRATS TO ALL YOU 2008 BRIDES its your year enjoy!!!!!

Mici n KC Posted: Jan 08, 2008 10:26 AM

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Wishing you all the best

LoveRocks Posted: Jan 08, 2008 10:32 AM

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I am so sorry that you're going thru this I wish you all the best and hope everything works out for you in 2008

Toucan311 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 10:37 AM

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Snick n Nick Posted: Jan 08, 2008 10:38 AM

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best of luck to you! you sound like you're handling it well, and I wish you ALL THE BEST in the future!!

emomma17 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 10:40 AM

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I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. Our thoughts are with you through this difficult time. You will come out strong in the end, even if that isn't clear now.

Belongs2DanBuckley Posted: Jan 08, 2008 10:40 AM

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You sound like you are really confident decision os I hope that 2008 brings you happiness! Good luck!

MrsQ-in2007 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 10:56 AM

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My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I hope 2008 brings you many good things!

cmjd Posted: Jan 08, 2008 11:02 AM

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So sorry to hear about this. Glad to hear your doing alright. Hang in there, everything will be ok.

AndRecKy Posted: Jan 08, 2008 11:04 AM

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im so sorry you are goign through this-defintely travel and spend time doing what makes you happy!!

PoeticJustice Posted: Jan 08, 2008 11:14 AM

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Wishing you all the best in the future

blu6385 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 11:52 AM

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thank you all for your well wishes!!!!!!! whats meant to be will ... !!!! hope all the best for all of you... and i am sure i will make my way back on here eventually to see how all your weddings went!!!!!!!

Mrs. V 2008 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 11:55 AM

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what??? i didn't know about this at all..im so sorry..stay strong, and please ..we're all here to listen if needed! good luck with everything

DnellD809 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 12:04 PM

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I'm so sorry sweetie! If you ever need to chat you can FM me....i've been in a similar situation and I know it can be hard!

JTsGal829 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 12:06 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through!!! All the best to you hun.. keep your head up.. it'll get better!!!

yelley77 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 12:46 PM

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I'm glad you have such a positive attitude. You are right, everything happens for a reason the is a bigger, better plan for you out there.

I wish you much happiness in 2008!!!

KickinDandelions Posted: Jan 08, 2008 12:48 PM

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best of luck

Soon2beAlberti Posted: Jan 08, 2008 12:52 PM

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oh boy, I'm sorry u have to go through this. I wish you the best of luck in the future.

chrispar Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:10 PM

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Tanya I am so sorry that you are going through this. I never saw your original post about this. I hope that you are ok. If you need anything at all or need to talk please feel free to FM me