FH actually made a document where he figured out the 'baby math'. . .basically, we want to start trying around this time next year. Since we're both music teachers, we want to avoid having a baby in November-December or April-May-June (concert and NYSSMA times). Oy!!!
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8 to 10yrs
cedesnyc
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were going to wait a year or so.
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8 to 10yrs
O WOW!! You totally win the longest wait period award!!! Aside from little34 that is!!!
If I waited 8 to 10 years I would be 37 to 39 years old. It's all a matter of age for us!! still young.. but we are at that mark where we are teadering off onto the older side and I've always wanted to be a young mother.
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Never for me
Never for my MOH either! She has rules! No Pets No Plants No Kids!
She doesn't want to have to take care of other things. And she lacks patience and hmm... kindness. Haha! It's the ONLY way i could put it!!! I'm not being mean though.. that's just her!!!
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We don't have a set time of when we are going to try. When it happens and if it happens great. We are letting nature do it's thing - lol
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Next spring... so that will be 3 months after the wedding
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Never for me
Never for my MOH either! She has rules! No Pets No Plants No Kids!
She doesn't want to have to take care of other things. And she lacks patience and hmm... kindness. Haha! It's the ONLY way i could put it!!! I'm not being mean though.. that's just her!!!
Being a teacher I just couldn't imagine having to come home and be a parent....I am happy with my cats!! LOL They just love and demand very little.....I am fine being a crazy cat lady when I am old....LOL I love kids...just other peoples kids.
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Never for me
Never for my MOH either! She has rules! No Pets No Plants No Kids!
She doesn't want to have to take care of other things. And she lacks patience and hmm... kindness. Haha! It's the ONLY way i could put it!!! I'm not being mean though.. that's just her!!!
Being a teacher I just couldn't imagine having to come home and be a parent....I am happy with my cats!! LOL They just love and demand very little.....I am fine being a crazy cat lady when I am old....LOL I love kids...just other peoples kids.
Haha! Yea - she doesn't even really love kids. She thinks they are just dirty. HAHAAHA!
I am also a crazy cat lover!!! I have 2 cats at home and they run the house!! SERIOUSLY!!! Those cats are in charge!! I just LOVE them!!!
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We don't have a set time of when we are going to try. When it happens and if it happens great. We are letting nature do it's thing - lol
That's exactly how we are with it! No plans either way.
We definitely want at least 2 children, and I'm 30, so we can't wait forever... but for now it'll be an 'if it happens, we're blessed' sort of thing, not a plan.
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We don't have a set time of when we are going to try. When it happens and if it happens great. We are letting nature do it's thing - lol
That's exactly how we are with it! No plans either way.
We definitely want at least 2 children, and I'm 30, so we can't wait forever... but for now it'll be an 'if it happens, we're blessed' sort of thing, not a plan.
That;s a nice way to be with it. And it's a heck of a lot less stress that way.
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Being a teacher I just couldn't imagine having to come home and be a parent...... I love kids...just other peoples kids.
This is exactly how I feel right now too.
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We want to start trying 3 years after the wedding.