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Invitation Help

lmr2282 Posted:

Invitation Help

How did/are you girls wording your invites if the FIL's are not contributing to the wedding. I want to just put my parents name on the invitation but my mother says I should put theirs on it as well. Please post some options for me.

Thanks
stinenandy2010 Posted:

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since my fil's are not contributing either we are not putting their names on the invitation, end of story. i just feel that since my parents are contributing 90% of the cost of this wedding, only their names should be on there, so I would just do the same - it will save time and aggrevation - jmo

lmr2282 Posted:

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I totally agree. Thanks

JenBill61210 Posted:

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We are doing it like this:

Mr. & Mrs. (MY PARENTS)
request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daugher

Jennifer

to

William

son of Mr. (his dad) and Mrs. (his mom)
RadiantBride Posted:

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Posted by JenBill61210

We are doing it like this:

Mr. & Mrs. (MY PARENTS)
request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daugher

Jennifer

to

William

son of Mr. (his dad) and Mrs. (his mom)



Agreed.
KRISTIND Posted:

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i believe etiquette (spelling) says that if his parents contributte it says son of if they dont it should read

mr and mrs
request the honour of your presence at the marriage of their daughter
Kristin
to
Francesco
At 6:00

Riag24 Posted:

Re: Invitation Help


Posted by lmr2282

How did/are you girls wording your invites if the FIL's are not contributing to the wedding. I want to just put my parents name on the invitation but my mother says I should put theirs on it as well. Please post some options for me.

Thanks



I put this - His family contributed mine hasnt of yet but thought it would jsut be weird to just put his parents name



This day I will marry my best friend,
the one I laugh with, live for, dream with, and love

Name
&
Name

Together with their families
invite you to share in the joy and
celebration of their marriage
dutchessev Posted:

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Posted by JenBill61210

We are doing it like this:

Mr. & Mrs. (MY PARENTS)
request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daugher

Jennifer

to

William

son of Mr. (his dad) and Mrs. (his mom)



I am doing same.
cupid2410 Posted:

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My parents are contributing and my in laws aren't paying a dime but we mentioned both of their names. I didn't want to make anyone mad or embarrass them since they don't have much money.

ttdiff11 Posted:

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my parents are paying for 90% of the wedding, fh dad isnt paying for anything. but my parents want fh's dad names on it so it says mr and mrs and mr...request the honor of...

LeeAnne Posted:

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Posted by RadiantBride


Posted by JenBill61210

We are doing it like this:

Mr. & Mrs. (MY PARENTS)
request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daugher

Jennifer

to

William

son of Mr. (his dad) and Mrs. (his mom)



Agreed.





same here even though fil's arent paying anything
soontobecruz Posted:

Re: Invitation Help

I have a related question.

My FH mother passed away, my parents and his dad are helping with the wedding. How do we honor his father or do we put.....

Son of...
(both his parents)

I want to remember his Mom but I am not sure how the fmily wil take it?
ttdiff11 Posted:

Re: Invitation Help


Posted by soontobecruz

I have a related question.

My FH mother passed away, my parents and his dad are helping with the wedding. How do we honor his father or do we put.....

Son of...
(both his parents)

I want to remember his Mom but I am not sure how the fmily wil take it?




fh's mom passed away as well, i didnt put her name
FutureMrsG Posted:

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Posted by LeeAnne


Posted by RadiantBride


Posted by JenBill61210

We are doing it like this:

Mr. & Mrs. (MY PARENTS)
request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daugher

Jennifer

to

William

son of Mr. (his dad) and Mrs. (his mom)



Agreed.


We did this too...but from what I was told if the girl's parents pay you do not put her last name on the invite but you include the grooms last name.


same here even though fil's arent paying anything

mrsjpc3 Posted:

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we did...

Together with their families......
AdriandSteve Posted:

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Posted by soontobecruz

I have a related question.

My FH mother passed away, my parents and his dad are helping with the wedding. How do we honor his father or do we put.....

Son of...
(both his parents)

I want to remember his Mom but I am not sure how the fmily wil take it?



My dad and FH's dad passed away.
i'm gonna word it

'You are invited (or whatever i'm gonna write in the beginning)

my name
daughter of (list both parents)

to
FH
son of (list both of his parents)'


no matter what you are always their child and they are always your parents.

IMO anyway
Almostawife Posted:

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all families are pitching in in my situation and FH's father has passed..our invitation reads

Mr. and Mrs. Brides dad and stepmom
Mr. and Mrs. Brides mom and stepdad
and
Mrs. Grooms Mom

request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their children.....



when you put the grooms names under his name such as son of ..... it implies they have not contributed. The hosts of the wedding are always listed at the top.

FH's father is not named because a deceased person cannot invite you to a wedding. I am mentioning his dad in other ways at the wedding.

ElleTom Posted:

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WE DID TOGETHER WITH THEIR PARENTS.

myprinn5667 Posted:

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What is the proper way to write the invitations out.

My parents are paying and his parents are not.

If there names are not supposed to be on the invitation under his name then I am deleting them off.

TIA.....
he gives me butterflies Posted:

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Posted by soontobecruz

I have a related question.

My FH mother passed away, my parents and his dad are helping with the wedding. How do we honor his father or do we put.....

Son of...
(both his parents)

I want to remember his Mom but I am not sure how the fmily wil take it?



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