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Invitations - RSVP cards get mailed back to me or my parents?????

gabbie83 Posted:

Invitations - RSVP cards get mailed back to me or my parents?????

we are including both of our parents on the invities, but im debating if the return address should be my parents or me & FH?

I dont know what to do.
Celest Posted:

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good question. I want to know too
kellybean Posted:

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mine came to me ....

irishsweetheart Posted:

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i addressed mine to myself at my parents address - but then again i still live at home

ETS: the invitations stated

Mr. and mrs. 'my parents'
request the honour of your presence at the marriage of

me to FH

son of
Mr. and Mrs 'fh's parents'
Snick n Nick Posted:

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We'll be doing ours to my parents' house, since FH and I don't live together, and also we both have TINY apartment mailboxes....

missexcited Posted:

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My RSVPs are coming back to me. Let it go back to whomever you think will track them better. IMO its Personal Preference

gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by missexcited

My RSVPs are coming back to me. Let it go back to whomever you think will track them better. IMO its Personal Preference



so it doesnt matter who's paying for what right?
I just hate doing everything by the book, I mean it would be easier for them to get sent back to me.... (PLUS I want to be the one who opens them up and finds out who is coming )
!!!!

Kimbalina Posted:

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I want then to come to me.. I think being that FH and I are paying for the bulk of the wedding... they should.
I was told however that it is 'inappropriate' by one of my BM's to do so!!! Ofcorse I ignored her. They will come to me!
TJ22908 Posted:

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I think they can go to whoever, mine got sent to my parents cause we are buying my parents house so I didn't want there to be any confusion with the post office if we moved before the RSVP date..but I HATE that there going there cause my mom looks at the outside ands like who did you invite from blah blah blah...she drives me crazy!!!

missexcited Posted:

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Posted by gabbie83


Posted by missexcited

My RSVPs are coming back to me. Let it go back to whomever you think will track them better. IMO its Personal Preference



so it doesnt matter who's paying for what right?
I just hate doing everything by the book, I mean it would be easier for them to get sent back to me.... (PLUS I want to be the one who opens them up and finds out who is coming )
!!!!





If that is what works better for you...I say do it. It is somewhat a big responsibility to track these RSVPs, so maybe your parents won't want to be bothered. I don't think it matters who is paying for what
kslmbuggie Posted:

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There coming back to us...i just think its a bit of an inconvenience to have to call the parents or have them call us to tell us what RSVP's came back when we can just send them to our house & make everyone's life easier.

jennandrolo Posted:

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they will be coming back to me

stlmn2u Posted:

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I'm having mine addressed to my parents because my invitation says,
'Mr. & Mrs.....
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter....
LittlePup34 Posted:

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definatley my house

nifheim Posted:

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i would say you but if you are afriad to get the rsvp back due to a bad mailman (this is my situation) they are being sent back to my parents house.

angl2001 Posted:

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im addressing them to me lol

jteach711 Posted:

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Me, Me, Me. I can't wait to start getting them. I would drive my mom nuts on a daily basis if they went to her house lol

binx214 Posted:

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Im having mine come back to me and FH since we live together its just easier

JoesFutureWife Posted:

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I'm having them sent to my parents name and address even though i live there. They are technically paying for a huge chunk of the wedding so i want them addressed to them.

LuvMyAlfonse Posted:

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FH and I are renting a PO Box JUST for the responses.

They'd get lost at my house and I don't want them going to FHs.

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