did u invite all work people with a guest? our guest list is getting a bit out of control and theres a bunch of people from work we'd both like to invite but if we invite them all with a guest then we have to cut a bunch out bc its just too many people...but its rude not to invite them with a guest right?
FutureMrsCarrieri
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I invited the people from work I liked and knew would be happy for me. Most of them are married so I can't do 'singles'
AndRecKy
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im only inviting a few ppl from work and i did invite them with guests.. but only like 4 people i invited haha
Mrs. V 2008
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I did..but only because they are all in serious relationships and I thought it would be rude to not invite them with a guest
chrispar
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I invited all of mine and FH's work people with a guest
ILOVEBRIAN2008
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alright im just going to have to not invite everyone i wanted to..damn
MeaganAndJoeC
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we did invite people from work but we didnt invite everyone from work
heathermatt
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we invited everyone from work without a date....married or not. I have a cute little poem that I recieved a lot of positives comments about. FM me for it. It is at my house and I am at FH ....
Also other work weddings only invited everyone with out dates so it happens all around
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I'm not inviting my whole office, just mainly the partners, people in my department, and then a few other people I'm close with. Basically if the people are married, of course I will invite them with a guest. Also, any of them who I know are in a serious relationship, I'm going to invite them with a guest. But there are a few ladies I plan on inviting who are single, and I'm not inviting them with a guest. And I'm sure they'll be understanding about it because when I was first engaged and stressing about money, they had said if I needed to cut work people in order to save money, they'd totally understand and would not be offended if I had to cut them. One of my co-workers got married last year and did the same thing with her invites, and it worked out fine, and no one was insulted, and they all came, and we had a great time together.
FtrMrsV
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Im inviting everyone in my oiffice because its a small firm. Only four secretaries including me and four attorneys.
Mici n KC
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I don't know how many work people I'm inviting yet. Definitely 2 and they have SOs so I will be inviting them with guests.
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IMO, if you invite them knowing they are in a serious relationship or married and leave the partner out, it is wrong. How would you feel if FH was invited to a wedding w/o you? If I know they are not involved with someone, then I am inviting just them, no guest. I am picking who to invite. FH and I work together. He has only 2 people he wants to invite. We work in a large organization. I could invite a hundred people easily, but I need to pick those that I really want. I am leaving out one person, that may cause an issue, but I hate her and she stresses me out.
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for me - i work in a small office. i am not close with everyone - but i invited those that i am close with. everyone who was invited to the wedding expected to be....because we're friends...ya know?
You kinda hvae to invite them with a guest if they are married....etc.
I guess there is a chance that you can speak to the people and see how they will take it...
jaep129
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I actually didnt invite anyone from work which ***** but we cant afford that many people. There are about 5-6 people I would want plus their guest. I would either cut the work list down or not have work people!
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We are actually inviting a TON of people from work, b/c we met at work and work together
But I would just invite the ones you both are closest to and if they are married or have a significant other, then include them as a guest.
SugaBeans
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we are inviting people with a guest only if they are married. It would be too much to invite everyone with a guest.
Maria31
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Yes, I'm inviting all of my work friends with guests. All of them are either married or in a serious relationship. If they aren't in a serious relationship, I think it's ok to invite them without a guest.
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Posted by Maria31
Yes, I'm inviting all of my work friends with guests. All of them are either married or in a serious relationship. If they aren't in a serious relationship, I think it's ok to invite them without a guest.
I agree! we did this :)
bluekat16
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We're inviting work people with the option of a guest.
lucky1010
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Im inviting my department and the ones that are married with a guest. If they aren't married or they are divorced, no guest... same goes for some of our friends. If they aren't dating someone, they are invited alone. I don't feel the need to pay for some random at our wedding