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Hun, i figured i would post here instead of NW... but I was told since I was young i wouldn't be able to have kids....

DH and I were in the process of filling out adoption papers, and I was on bcp to get rid of more of my cysts that came backk...

ANd wham bam... Here I am at almost 8 mths preggo with a healthy jelly bean

Just take things one step at a time

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Posted by PoppedInASnap

Hun, i figured i would post here instead of NW... but I was told since I was young i wouldn't be able to have kids....

DH and I were in the process of filling out adoption papers, and I was on bcp to get rid of more of my cysts that came backk...

ANd wham bam... Here I am at almost 8 mths preggo with a healthy jelly bean

Just take things one step at a time

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THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!! CONGRATS to you. That is soo amazing and wonderful :)

You're not alone!

I worry about this all the time for reasons I don't want to get into.

FH wants them right away and I kind of want to wait a bit but I'm anxious to try too!

I def don't think it's an irrational fear. For other reasons I will have a high risk pregnancy but having a kid is the last thing on my mind right now.

But your def. not being irrational.

I am actually VERY scared that I cannot have kids. I have chronic ovarian cysts to the extreme that I am on birth control continuously just so I don't ovulate and get them. I also have had many cysts rupture and 1 needed emergency surgery (I almost died from the internal bleeding). Even after all that Omar and I still tried for a baby last year. He is in his 30's and I am getting there, so we didn't want to waste time. Well...nothing happened and I ended up with more painful cysts. So, we put if off til after the wedding. Then, I will be seeing a fertility specialist. I am hoping all comes out OK, but ever since my surgery, I have a lot of abdominal issues. I am really nervous.

With your history, I would talk to your gyno or a fertility specialist and get their opinion! I hope it all works out for you!!!!

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Posted by PoppedInASnap

Hun, i figured i would post here instead of NW... but I was told since I was young i wouldn't be able to have kids....

DH and I were in the process of filling out adoption papers, and I was on bcp to get rid of more of my cysts that came backk...

ANd wham bam... Here I am at almost 8 mths preggo with a healthy jelly bean

Just take things one step at a time

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Wow, thats great and really inspiring to me too!

its one of my deepest fears... i dont know i feel like everyone woman just takes it as a given, like when i get pregnant, but usually people dont find out until they start trying. id be so crushed if im not able to for whatever reason

I am too... I haven't tried to ever get pregnant. I'm just nervous that when I do, we'll have a hard time. I'm an only child and my mom was an only child. I know my mom had miscarriages and my grandma as well. If I can only have one child, I'll be happy. We can only hope for the best!

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Posted by SoontobeGallagher

I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriages. I feel the same way sometimes. Sometimes I think 'What happens if FH is marrying a non-baby making girl?!?!' FH says I'm crazy. I hope I am.

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ITA!!