I didn't do them. I told people verbally and in letters, and I sent my invites out well in advance. You don't need them, unless, I think, your wedding is during a holiday weekend.
goldilocks
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Save the Date stuff is not mandatory, save your money! We're doing them because we're having a holiday wedding (Memorial Day weekend). If it were a regular weekend, we'd skip it.
Jordan
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We're not doing them either. Everyone who is invited will know the date. I plan on sending the invites out earlier than the suggested 8 - 12 weeks.
Kathy116
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I did them because my wedding is a few days after Christmas, busy traveling time..so I thought it was a good idea to give people a heads up. I sent those out in January, giving them almost 1 year notice!
deby
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not doing them
Jenny5150
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We didn't bother b/c most of our guests are local. There are a few that have to travel, but most are in our bridal party (or we speak with them regularly.)
I've only received one 'Save The Date' and that was for a wedding up in Newport, RI during the summer. It was a destination wedding for all of their guests and during a busy season, so we all needed to make early arrangements.
J.Lo24
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I did my save-the-date on our favors we gave out at the engagment party. I made little tags and cut them up with the creative scissors. It worked out well.
JodiBabe
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We didn't do them either. Our invites are going out in the next week or 2
eternityawaits
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we are not doing STD's - instead we are sending out engagement announcements only to those who won't be invited to the wedding (or cannot attend) so that they know as well
Sunny
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I planned on doing them just for out of towners and never actually got around to it. Now it is too late- I have the stuff sitting on my table, too!
Frankslady
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Didn't do STD.
mv1003
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I only did them for the out-of-towners. Not everyone
paintbrush91
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I m not.
I think it really only has to be done if it is a holiday weekend or someother busy time.
EBM7
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Yeah - I'm thinking mid-January is not a very popular time
LnP2003
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i didn't do it either.... actually - weddingchannel.com has a freebie one that you can create and send out by email!
endlessluv429
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i didn't either! like paintbrush said-i think it's only necessary if it is on or around a big holiday weekend--
no offense to anyone who did it because they are really cute, but i didn't think people would want a magnet of us on their refrigerator. if they are so important to us they better have the date in their head! lol