My MOH does not want to do a speech. And to be honest, I am hurt.
Boop2704
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I had asked mine to, but she is shy and didn't want to, so I didn't push it. We just had our best man do it, my stepson, and it was adorable!! But I have been to weddings where the MOH has given a speech after the best man!!
holly231
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I have never been to a wedding that the MOH has given a speech. If my MOH wants to make one, thats fine..if not, thats fine too!
randella
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What about at the RD? I said a little something at my friend's- as her sister was her Maitron and she spoke at the wedding.
I have two MOH's.. but I think one will need to back out.. so, the other may not want to do it on her own-- unless she does it with FH's best man- he has two- his bro and best friend.. this way it will both my best friend, and his..
troutster
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I have two MH and I don't think either one are going to give a speech. I didn't ask them too.. but if they want to that is fine with me. :)
Butterflybride
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My MOH made a big deal about it, so I'm not gonna push the issue. Well, she made a big deal about being my MOH in general, so I'm just gonna take what I can get, lol.
nov.bride
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I can GUARANTEE my moh will not do a speech but she is very shy and I am totally fine with it. My bestman - he will be front and center thats for sure
d&d05
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I was the MOH in my best friend's wedding and I gave one. So I suspect she will give one too.
FoxHollowbride0617
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Mine aren't. Just the best man
DebMaher
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Is there a reason -- is she maybe afraid of speaking in front of so many people? Maybe you could give her another job instead of a speech like read something as part of a toast.
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Posted by DebMaher
Is there a reason -- is she maybe afraid of speaking in front of so many people? Maybe you could give her another job instead of a speech like read something as part of a toast.
That's what she said. She is scared of doing it in front of people, so she said No. I asked her if she would be hurt if I asked one of my BMs. She said fine, so my FH called my BM and she said she would be honored.
ltlbkworm4
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Neither my MOH or BM will be giving a speech. We decided against it, knowing that my MOH is too shy for it - I know that I would be completely mortified if I had to do one myself (public speaking is not my forte!) so it doesn't bother me.
paulandles912
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Mine didn't. Only the best man gave one.
Stacey04
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I told my MOH she didn't have to if she didn't want to. My 2 brothers got married and were each others BM, and both gave great toasts, I was thinking I would ask one or both of them to make a toast instead of my MOH.
brooklynbridezilla
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I'm not sure what we are going to do about that- I don't think my sister OR the best men are going to want to speak.
CaCRmr
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Mine is mad at me that I'm making her walk down the aisle by herself...she'll KILL me if I tell her she has to make a speech.
The Best Man will make a speech and that's it
nylisa
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My MOH (my sister) does not want to give one. She is very emotional and I know that if she starts to give them that she will probably be crying during the whole speech so she decided not to give one.
franksbride
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Nah...we went the traditional route and only had the BM give a speech.
nov04LIbride
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I don't want the BM giving a speech. To be honest, I don't see him being good at all at public speaking, and am somewhat worried about what he would consider appropriate to say. I have heard too many stories about FH's friend's speeches that refer to the number of people the guy has slept with, etc. I haven't asked MOH whether she will yet...I don't think I will care if she doesn't want to though...
treilly13
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Posted by FoxHollowbride0617
Mine aren't. Just the best man
Me too. Though his 2 brothers are the best men so they will both be doing a speech.
