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is fh going to...

Original post by SugaBeans

wear his Wedding band? Im not sure if FH will wear it all the time. I hope he will but he doesnt wear any jewlery to work. Hes a mailman and doesnt want anything to happen to it. what about your FH's??

jsta76 Posted:

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Posted by DNS91308

FH already said he wasnt going to wear it. He said his father doesnt wear his. My response was your dad work with marble and granite all day... you sit at a desk? How is that the same?




It's kinda funny how many peoples fathers don't wear their rings. I know mine doesn't nor does FH's father (though in his defense it was stolen).

He told me it will take some getting used to but he's planning on wearing it.
ChristineAaron08 Posted:

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My FH was talking about getting a nice band and a plain one b/c he doesnt want to ruin it at work.

My dad had worn his band for about 33 years. It is actually wearing thin on the palm side. He has ALWAYS had a messy job (porter business, and lots and lots of yard work) and still wore it, so FH has no excuse.
DomTriniBRL Posted:

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He better. I'll even make sure it's crazy guled to his finger. LOL

I know FI will wear it 98% of the time. He'll probably take it off to shower, just like I would take the E-Ring off for showering and chores.
anneandchris Posted:

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Mine will wear his. He works from home so really if it doesn't have it on during the day -- no one will know.

My dad had two -- one for work and the one that matched my mom's wedding band.

ETA: I am getting two for the work reason. When I am in the office it is not a problem but I travel I can't be worrying about ruining or losing them.

DeeluvsVinny Posted:

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We went looking and Fh found this flexible ring, which he will wear everyday. It's kind of like a watch band..but not stretchy. It's cool and he can wear it to work and then he'll get a 'real' one to wear when he's not working.

Future Mulligan Posted:

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Posted by Fall Bride 2008

he plans on never taking it off




same here! its funny b/c one of the first conversations i had with FH was about men wearing wedding bands - and he swore that he would never ever wear one b/c he doesnt like jewelry and doesnt like rings - i told him that he would have a very disappointed wife one day......i guess when you fall in love things change - now FH doesnt mind it at all and is excited to be a husband and wear a wedding band - thank god or else id have to kick his A$$!!!!!!!!
rahana316 Posted:

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Posted by Julybride08

Fh will not be wearing it every day. He is an auto technician and he is not allowed to wear it to work. So that is fine with me. Plus I wouldn't want it to get ruined.



Ditto. FH Is also a auto tech and a couple of his friends have had their fingers caught in the engine and fan because of the ring and it wasnt nice.

So I personally DONT want him wearing it. I'm scared something will happen to his fingers.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Crystan08

HAH so funny that so many FH's are doing the Tattoo thing too!! Fh is a construction worker so he works with his hands all day so he is going to tattoo my name around his wedding band finger and then outline it to look like a band. We just designed it this week...LoL !! I guess we are not alone!!



YEAH wow im surprised too that alot of ppl are doing this...FH brought it up and i loved the idea.
ShanonandSteve Posted:

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we bought 2 bands for FH. one for when he is working.. simple band.

and one that matches my band.

he works outside, and doesnt want anything to happen to his ring.

ETA: love the tattoo idea. my grandfather actually did this years ago. i never mentioned it to FH though.. maybe tonight.

violiz Posted:

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FH will definately wear his. He's a jewelery person and actually really likes his wedding band.

Crystan08 Posted:

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HAH so funny that so many FH's are doing the Tattoo thing too!! Fh is a construction worker so he works with his hands all day so he is going to tattoo my name around his wedding band finger and then outline it to look like a band. We just designed it this week...LoL !! I guess we are not alone!!



YEAH wow im surprised too that alot of ppl are doing this...FH brought it up and i loved the idea.



Seriously what's not to love!! LoL!!!!!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Crystan08

HAH so funny that so many FH's are doing the Tattoo thing too!! Fh is a construction worker so he works with his hands all day so he is going to tattoo my name around his wedding band finger and then outline it to look like a band. We just designed it this week...LoL !! I guess we are not alone!!



YEAH wow im surprised too that alot of ppl are doing this...FH brought it up and i loved the idea.



Seriously what's not to love!! LoL!!!!!



when is yours getting it? right before or after?

Crystan08 Posted:

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HAH so funny that so many FH's are doing the Tattoo thing too!! Fh is a construction worker so he works with his hands all day so he is going to tattoo my name around his wedding band finger and then outline it to look like a band. We just designed it this week...LoL !! I guess we are not alone!!



YEAH wow im surprised too that alot of ppl are doing this...FH brought it up and i loved the idea.



Seriously what's not to love!! LoL!!!!!



when is yours getting it? right before or after?




Actually he wanted to get it done soon. I told him to wait though at least until a little closer to the wedding. FH knows someone that got an amazing tattoo in Hawaii now he wants another tattoo on his arm in Hawaii so I told him to wait and he can get the ring done on our Honeymoon too if anything. I think he wants to go to the guy who does all his tattoos though so maybe right before the wedding.
Future Mulligan Posted:

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i love the tattoo idea.....but it makes me nervous - im not that superstitious but its just that everyone i know who has something like that - well they arent together anymore! so it scares me! i think its soooo sexy but i dont know there is something about it that i feel like in jinxs it.....

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Crystan08

HAH so funny that so many FH's are doing the Tattoo thing too!! Fh is a construction worker so he works with his hands all day so he is going to tattoo my name around his wedding band finger and then outline it to look like a band. We just designed it this week...LoL !! I guess we are not alone!!



YEAH wow im surprised too that alot of ppl are doing this...FH brought it up and i loved the idea.



Seriously what's not to love!! LoL!!!!!



when is yours getting it? right before or after?




Actually he wanted to get it done soon. I told him to wait though at least until a little closer to the wedding. FH knows someone that got an amazing tattoo in Hawaii now he wants another tattoo on his arm in Hawaii so I told him to wait and he can get the ring done on our Honeymoon too if anything. I think he wants to go to the guy who does all his tattoos though so maybe right before the wedding.



Fh got a tattoo at Miami ink in august, and when we were there he brought this up but i said its too soon to wait until closer to the wedding
Espo22 Posted:

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i love the tattoo idea.....but it makes me nervous - im not that superstitious but its just that everyone i know who has something like that - well they arent together anymore! so it scares me! i think its soooo sexy but i dont know there is something about it that i feel like in jinxs it.....



well then im screwed already
autumnbride10 Posted:

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im thinking of making him get a tattoo there - just in case he doesnt want to wear it lol



we're actually doing that. FH is a welder and works w/ alot of machinery that could catch on his ring if he wore it so he won't be wearing it all the time. We're both getting tattoos that will be hidden by our rings (not a fan of showing my ink)




FH is a mechanic and can't wear his at work. He wants to get a tattoo too.....
Kimbalina Posted:

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FH is not a jewlery wearing type of guy. I hope that he will get used to it. But I am pretty sure he will wear it.

Future Mulligan Posted:

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you guys have to post pics of that tattoos - i think it looks so great.....im just weird about FH doing something like that......and god forbid i died or something - i would hate for him to have to be reminded everyday - and i would want him to remarry and what not.....but i do think its super romantic and i think it looks so great!!!!

Future Mulligan Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

i love the tattoo idea.....but it makes me nervous - im not that superstitious but its just that everyone i know who has something like that - well they arent together anymore! so it scares me! i think its soooo sexy but i dont know there is something about it that i feel like in jinxs it.....



well then im screwed already




- well not everyone espo! im just a weirdo! but i LOVE tattoos like that.....i think they are sexy

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