Is it bridezilla of me to...

SoontobeGallagher Posted: Feb 02, 2010 08:46 PM

Is it bridezilla of me to...

Make my girls get their hair and make up done at my house the day of the wedding...and have them pay for it?

FutureMrsG Posted: Feb 02, 2010 08:57 PM

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It is a little bridezilla of you to ask them to get their hair done at your place and to have them pay for it. Try asking them you may be surprised; they may want to get ready with you on your wedding day.

jmgoncal Posted: Feb 02, 2010 08:59 PM

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Kind of... I think that if you're requiring them to get hair/makeup done, then you should pay for it. Otherwise, you should give them the option - I know a bunch of my BMs are choosing to get theirs done with me anyway...

RitasEngaged Posted: Feb 02, 2010 09:00 PM

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if you were paying for it no - if your not i dont think its right

soontobecruz Posted: Feb 02, 2010 09:02 PM

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I am asking my girls to get their hair done. I am not paying for it but will have someone at my house if they'd like to use her. If they prefer to go somewhere else I am fine with that too.

Make up is optional but again I have some at my house if they want

ETA: The girl coming to my house is only like $40 a girl I think that is reasonable

SoontobeGallagher Posted: Feb 02, 2010 09:12 PM

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Ok fair enough. Thanks girls. I'm glad I asked you first. haha. I'll ask them how they feel about the idea and go from there based on their response.

Rosalind_75 Posted: Feb 02, 2010 09:22 PM

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yes. sorry

im giving my girls the option.

kerber981 Posted: Feb 02, 2010 09:50 PM

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A little bit. I'm in a wedding and being told how to do my hair and what shoes to wear and I find it kind of annoying.

AdriandSteve Posted: Feb 02, 2010 09:56 PM

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eh.. it's borderline. If it were me I would get it done but being told that I HAD to get it done and I HAD to pay for it is what would bother me.

JAAMS Posted: Feb 02, 2010 11:09 PM

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I think yes, a bit since you're not paying for it.

I'm not telling my girls they HAVE to get their hair done b/c I can't afford to pay for it

GR2010 Posted: Feb 02, 2010 11:23 PM

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I think it depends on how much it's going to cost them. My hair person would want $100 and the same for makeup. I can't see making them shell out another $200 just because I want their hair and makeup a certain way.

Lucky2010 Posted: Feb 03, 2010 07:15 AM

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I want my girls to get ready at my house with me and I'm not requiring them to get their hair and make-up done professionally, but I think they're going to because they want to do it. Ask them about it!

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Feb 03, 2010 07:18 AM

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In all honesty, yes.

The girls have a lot of financial expectation as it is with a wedding. I would never dream of demanding they have to get their hair professionally done, and make them pay. I'd only ever do that if I could pay completely or pay half or something.

Sorry.

jcreilly Posted: Feb 03, 2010 07:54 AM

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I would ask them ! If they can not afford it then I would not make them 2 of my girls are doing their hair themselves( but they are really good at it).