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is it just me?

Original post by cmjd

or does anyone else second guess themselves on every decision!!! i feel like i ordered my dress so long ago that i am going to hate it by the time i see it again. And every time i think i have picked a BM dress color, i think about it for a little while and then i dont think i like it!! is this normal or am i going crazy?

cmjd Posted:

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I never doubted my FH - so thats good right? But thats about it. Everything else, i question.

Future Mulligan Posted:

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its craaaaaazy! hey at least we all feel this way!

Dougs Girl Posted:

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Yes. I keep second guesing my dress. I love it, but I feel I should have tried on more before I made the final decision.

Bella77 Posted:

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you are definitely not alone!!

LT Posted:

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My family and friends are ready to disown me! I can't settle on a dress. I keep looking and looking and everytime i find one when i leave i second guess it. Then i bring someone else back to help me decide and they hate it and then i am back to square one!! I wish i could just go with FH, he would tell me what looks good and what doesnt and i would be done. whenever i go shopping with him he tells me i never second guess what i buy. Does anyone understand me? I am loosing MY MIND HERE!! lol
mendi725 Posted:

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it's very normal! I've seen my dress a couple of times and loved it every time I see it.


I know what your saying though! don't stress!
ilovehimso1029 Posted:

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I have been second guessing EVERYTHING!!!! It's making me CRAZY!!!
bluegreen08 Posted:

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yes, all the time. especially my BM dresses since we didn't even look. My girls tried on 3 dresses on a whim, fell in love with 1, i liked it and said let's go with it.

Sometimes I wish I went with a strapless dress. They preferred a strap though and it's probably too late to change it so I'm just going to stick with it.

I've also second-guessed my invites. We went with more elegant/traditional and sometimes I wonder if we should have done something a little more modern/trendy w/ color but it's also too late to change that.

The only thing I've obsessed about and actually let myself change was my BP -- I just added a BM last week and am happy I did
jeffamanda080808 Posted:

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I have to admit...........there are only 2 things I haven't second guessed...the groom and the dress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll second guess everything else right up until I see it all together...then I'll pat myself on the back and say job well done!!!
mRm2008 Posted:

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No its no just you I think we all feel like that from time to time. Why do we do that to ourselves
kimandvin Posted:

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allthe time I actually want to add something to my dress becuse ofcourse i ordered it and then saw one very similar that i liked a bit more..

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