Is it just me noticing this..

well to tell you the truth.........i really dont give a cr*p if people like what i have to say....................i speak my mind..........why should any of us care , if there are people not getting along, thats just life.........some people you get along with and others you dont

jonn

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Posted by maiahsdad

well to tell you the truth.........i really dont give a cr*p if people like what i have to say....................i speak my mind..........why should any of us care , if there are people not getting along, thats just life.........some people you get along with and others you dont

jonn

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I totally gree with you, I just feel like we have been stuck in negativity zone. Like one day we'll have a flame post and the next its gone but recently we seem to be having a bonfire lol.

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Posted by myasmom

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Posted by maiahsdad

well to tell you the truth.........i really dont give a cr*p if people like what i have to say....................i speak my mind..........why should any of us care , if there are people not getting along, thats just life.........some people you get along with and others you dont

jonn

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I totally gree with you, I just feel like we have been stuck in negativity zone. Like one day we'll have a flame post and the next its gone but recently we seem to be having a bonfire lol.

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but come on you have to LOVE the fires sometimes they make me laugh .......

ok I admit it..it kind of does sometimes lol especially when you see someone who knows just the right thing to say to get another person started. You can smell the set up coming and yes I have been guilty of saying certain things just to get people riled up

I am noticing that people just want to stir the pot for no reason at all.

They post things that they know are going to be offensive to others...
This i find is annoying!

I am noticing that people just want to stir the pot for no reason at all.

They post things that they know are going to be offensive to others...
This i find is annoying!

BOIL BOIL TOIL and Trouble

Negativity? I wouldn't say so much...just people getting overly upset when someone disagrees with them.

Don't get me wrong there are some rude mother f***ers on this site, but they are everywhere in the world, a wedding website is no different. People just have to realize this.

Ok, let' just all

And if someone is getting to you , just remember
'they are not real people, they just live in the computer!'

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Posted by tourist

Ok, let' just all

And if someone is getting to you , just remember
'they are not real people, they just live in the computer!'

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You are too much. No one is getting to me personally.. its just an observation. And thats what I like about the board, no one is real to me except for the select few I care to meet but its good to be able to post without inhibition.

I have also seen quite a bit of negativity.

Just in general, some people will ask for opinions.

To me, that does not mean, 'tell me in the most nasty way possible how much you hate this.'

just a thought...

Posted by tourist

Ok, let' just all

And if someone is getting to you , just remember
'they are not real people, they just live in the computer!'

hehehehe

I think there are two kinds of people on this board that people call dramatic

1) people who post things KNOWING it will upset someone or cause drama, but like it

2) people who are a) just trying to have fun and b) keep it real, and call a spade a spade.

And a lot of people are way too sensitive and take themselves way too seriously.

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Posted by marymoon

I think there are two kinds of people on this board that people call dramatic

1) people who post things KNOWING it will upset someone or cause drama, but like it

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this annoys the crapola out of me!

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Posted by marymoon

I think there are two kinds of people on this board that people call dramatic

1) people who post things KNOWING it will upset someone or cause drama, but like it

2) people who are a) just trying to have fun and b) keep it real, and call a spade a spade.

And a lot of people are way too sensitive and take themselves way too seriously.

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Hey thats three

I have a little bit of #1 in me.. as long as its not a terribly hurtful topic.. I like the shock valueof gross topics..just so I can see the ewwwwws

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Posted by myasmom

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Posted by marymoon

I think there are two kinds of people on this board that people call dramatic

1) people who post things KNOWING it will upset someone or cause drama, but like it

2) people who are a) just trying to have fun and b) keep it real, and call a spade a spade.

And a lot of people are way too sensitive and take themselves way too seriously.

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Hey thats three

I have a little bit of #1 in me.. as long as its not a terribly hurtful topic.. I like the shock valueof gross topics..just so I can see the ewwwwws

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NOOO Mya...you are NOT #1...You like to post debateable topics..that is different from the arses that intentionally post to cause mean/nasty drama....That is NOT you!

thank you soo much lool. No I dont like mean topics but I do like topics like the human bot fly....it grossed the crap out of me lol so I just had to share it. Knowing that someone would probably run for the hills but I do warn TMI lol

I agree with Jen, you're not #1. Posting something gross or political (as long as it's not personal or offensive ) is one thing, and I think that's fine, I think that's part of the #2 category (ok, so I really posted like 4 categories..lol)....

What's drama causing is like when someone says

'I can't believe so many people from such and such a group are on here why?'

or

'This person or group of people posts too many threads, they are so classless/trashy/tramy/hoe-baggy/annoying/whatever'

I mean there's absolutely NO point to posting those topics. there's no debate. There's either people jumping on your bandwagon saying 'yeah' and increasing the insult, or the people who will lay the smack down on you, and there you are, instant argument. instant drama