is it every time a person asks me my wedding date I feel I have to justify why I am waiting until 2006! I mean , honestly I just want to have my pick of vendors so I chose to wait but its so annoying when people are like:
'oh so he wants to wait huh?'
'oh you have plenty of time to get out of it'
agrrghhhghghghghghghgggh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
chikita315
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I hate when people are like, 'Oh, you're getting married in Winter?? Aren't you scared it's going to snow??' No, actually I'm praying for a noreaster!
Soem people!
cjb88
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i just say .... if you want to pay for it, ill gladly move it up for you...
hmpena
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Posted by chikita315
I hate when people are like, 'Oh, you're getting married in Winter?? Aren't you scared it's going to snow??' No, actually I'm praying for a noreaster!
Soem people!
I hear ya, Chikita! My dad make a rude comment about me getting married in the winter, to which I replied, 'Well, I am paying for this myself, so it's my decision.' That shut him up! LOL!
Kim51103
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LOL....people are like 'Oh u have plenty of time' umm NO
2006 is a GREAT year!!! GO US!!!!
Thumballina
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Yes I know what you all mean...everyone keeps asking us why we chose next year and towards the end of it?????
Ummm HELLO!!!! If you would like to have my vendors send their invoices to your house...that can easily be arranged!!!!
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Posted by hmpena
Posted by chikita315
I hate when people are like, 'Oh, you're getting married in Winter?? Aren't you scared it's going to snow??' No, actually I'm praying for a noreaster!
Soem people!
I hear ya, Chikita! My dad make a rude comment about me getting married in the winter, to which I replied, 'Well, I am paying for this myself, so it's my decision.' That shut him up! LOL!
I hear ya both everyone comments like ohh the winter is so cold. and honestly if it does snow i dont care as long as the person who is marrying us can get there that is all i care about. No need to worry. And all of my other friends are getting married in the spring/summer/fall so i get the winter all to myself my wedding is not a month after one of my other friends.
LaurenluvsTJ
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people just don't have anything better to do than to make comments about other people. just ignore them.
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Posted by cjb88
i just say .... if you want to pay for it, ill gladly move it up for you...
Ditto! Also, anyone from LI knows how quickly vendors book here. You need time!
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I get a scared face like 'isn't March going to be cold?' I have to remind them that it's the 1st week of Spring just to help justify!!!
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How about when you go to a vendor and they tell you oh you've got plenty of time? or Oh, wow 2006 there's plenty of time to go over the little things. Well maybe I want to know the little things now. Maybe I want to take care of things at my pace not yours since Im paying for it! Now that we've moved to 2007 I dont dare tell anyone.
JPbride
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It drives me nuts!!! It is not like is cost 5K for a wedding these days! I get so angry too !
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I get a scared face like 'isn't March going to be cold?' I have to remind them that it's the 1st week of Spring just to help justify!!!
I get that all the time! I'm a week before you and am praying for some sun! Someone actually said 'Oh, you're having a winter wedding....' No, it's a week before spring!
denise2006
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Hey, 2006 is NEXT YEAR!!! NOT TWO YEARS FROM NOW :)
teany
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I hear you on that! I guess they've never tried to plan/pay for a wedding in NY in under a year...
gNi1125
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I get 'oh, you have plenty of time' often. Obviously not because the church time we wanted was already booked.
sarahbelle
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I get the same comments too, but never from women my age. Anyone who knows LI knows that we are serious and get things booked early.
Princessmaris
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Grrr!!!! I hear ya girls!!!
I never get questioned about my time of year, but whenever I talk about doing things for my wedding... i get the grand old comment
'YOU HAVE PLENTY OF TIME TO WORRY ABOUT THAT'
No... if I wanna take care of it now... thats my prorogative!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I hear ya.
Some people think we can't be excited and talk about the details because it's so far away?
But, my FH is pretty great and he lets me talk about the wedding anytime I want. Even if it must get annoying. Not saying I talk about it every day but I have my 'wedding dreaming' days.
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OMG YES!!
Its none of anybody's damn business is what I want to scream out! All of these ladies (whom I don't really even know that well) at work had an opinion about this!!! It think its as personal as asking when are you going to have children! Its rude!
