Is it Me???

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Posted by neeniebean86

but then why reply to those topics??

im definately not trying to attack anyone, and yeah, i'm not going to talk about my 'O's' on a public board.. BUT thats why off topic is there... you can choose to read, respond or ignore. Yeah, some things push it a little (or alot)... But people used to put things like that on NWR and it would just get deleted. People didnt want all of it to get deleted, so they made OT as a compromise. Im sure if anything is Terrible (like what some people have in mind right now), then Ron will pull it when he sees it.... but some people are more comfortable with talking about those things, and like to see how other people feel about it. i feel like its like a car accident... if you dont want to see blood and gore, then dont look

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I agree with everything you wrote Neenie.. Sometimes I'm in the mood to be chatty about my sex life, but sometimes I'm not and I just ignor the post

Honestly I don't have much of a problem with the majority of the other discussions on OT .. as I said, to me its rarely anyting more 'scandalous' or different than what you can see on the cover of Glamour or Cosmo ..

Its just that this is PORN - and not even 'nice' porn (if you know what I mean) Its really tastless and actually disgusting. if I wanted to see that I would go onto a PORN site ...

I know there was a warning and I'm not attacking CubanBride at all, but I just think that Ron will eventually put a stop to these sorts of pictures

ughh that was so sick!! (about to puke)

I know I don't like things that come with those types of warnings, so I didn't even bother clicking on it.

ETA: damn, curiousity got the best of me. I feel sick. The problem with that post is that there's nothing funny or interesting or thoughtful about it. It's posting something gross for shock value and that's it.

Posted by neeniebean86]Posted by luvsbob4603

i think its a little too much some things you dont want to talk about which are private which should not be on the boards even if it is a off topic board just my opini on.

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but then why reply to those topics??

im definately not trying to attack anyone, and yeah, i'm not going to talk about my 'O's' on a public board.. BUT thats why off topic is there... you can choose to read, respond or ignore. Yeah, some things push it a little (or alot)... But people used to put things like that on NWR and it would just get deleted. People didnt want all of it to get deleted, so they made OT as a compromise. Im sure if anything is Terrible (like what some people have in mind right now), then Ron will pull it when he sees it.... but some people are more comfortable with talking about those things, and like to see how other people feel about it. i feel like its like a car accident... if you dont want to see blood and gore, then dont look



I was curious on what topic they were talking about i didn't think it was going to be that bad. a old man. gross i just want to puke.

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Posted by FeliciaDA

I enjoy the discussions and some of the other posts that as adult men and women, I'm sure we can all relate to (discussions that aren't any worse than what you'd see or find in Cosmo lets say)

But yes, the porn and such is really a bit over the top and I was actually shocked at how grossed out I was lately at a few of the more tastless/raunchy things

And I am FAR from prudish or easily offended

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I agree. I liked the board when it was formed and debates went on and some sexual questions were posted (like was DH your first, or what's the strangest place you've ever...) but lately it's taken on a whole new level. Personally I just don't click on posts unless I think they are going to interest me, but it's getting to the point where I just don't even want to go to the OT board.