Is it me?

Original post by somebride

Jan 25, 2008 07:38 PM

Sorry posting anonymously, so as not to ruffle any feathers.

Just wondering if anyone else feel the same way?
On the boards there are definitely brides who post ALOT, and others, like myself, who get on here when they can. And some brides seem to be more popular than others.
And it seems to me that the regular posters get quicker, more informative replies than others do. I've seen where a 'regular' bride and a 'rarely seen' bride will post the same or similar topic. And the 'regular' bride, who posts all the time will get lik 25 replies in a matter of minutes and the 'rarely seen' will get maybe 1 or 2 replies.
Is this just a coincidence or are people more likely to reply to a bride who is on here all the time? Is there a secret to getting more replies?

TommysWife08 Posted: Jan 26, 2008 03:05 PM

Re: Is it me?

yeah i can see what you are saying.... sometimes i feel like its a popularity contest... that could just be me being self-conscious tho

for the past few months i havent been on here much AT ALL - partly because i've been really busy since my wedding is almost 3 months away! but i was feeling excluded on certain levels here (and i know i've never been to any GTG or anything, but i was an avid poster)

so no hard feelings tho i still love the site!! i've just told myself i wasnt going to come on here a whole lot anymore... only if i need to ask a question or one of my other friends post something on here