FH just forwarded me an email from one of his friends telling us that we should hire a charter bus to take all his friends from Queens to our wedding because they don't want to stay in the hotel and they don't want to drink and drive. Is it me or is that just crazy? I think they can take the jitney or the LIRR if they don't want to stay and they don't want to drive right??
I think its rude of them to even bring that up. Theyre all adults and should be able to work something out for themselves. They shouldnt rely on you like its your responsibility. If they go out for a friends birthday and drive somewhere, would they expect the friend to get them cabs home?? Gimme a break.
If they were asking for a shuttle to the hotel, that's one thing. they are being ridiculous. if they want to get wasted then they should pony up for the hotel. end of story.
Heck no! You've done your part! They need to be responsible for themselves and taxi-it-up or take the RR. I mean, really now!
It's them, not u.
That is INSANE! people have to be responsible for getting themselves to and from the wedding. someone can be DD or they could do the LIRR or a car service. do not let this bother oyu in the least. it is not your responsibility. how many weddings have we all been to where we had to worry about our transportation and/or limited drinking to get there safely?
Yeah, that's too much. They can suck it up and pick a designated driver. Or let them hire a charter bus. (I would NOT rely on the Jitney or LIRR, ever. Plus it's still a few miles from your location.). Common sense should tell you that if you are at a Hamptons wedding, you aren't going to schlep back to Queens, so don't even try.
Posted by Songstress
I think its rude of them to even bring that up. Theyre all adults and should be able to work something out for themselves. They shouldnt rely on you like its your responsibility. If they go out for a friends birthday and drive somewhere, would they expect the friend to get them cabs home?? Gimme a break.
Posted by DrWho
Plus it's still a few miles from your location.
Your FH should tell them to figure it out or maybe they can all chip in together and charter their own bus...very rude, probably not intentionally...but still rude. they are all adults and should figure it out!
Posted by sareejoh
FH just forwarded me an email from one of his friends telling us that we should hire a charter bus to take all his friends from Queens to our wedding because they don't want to stay in the hotel and they don't want to drink and drive. Is it me or is that just crazy? I think they can take the jitney or the LIRR if they don't want to stay and they don't want to drive right??
um...why don't THEY get together and hire a driver themselves??? ignore them!
Posted by sareejoh
Posted by DrWho
Plus it's still a few miles from your location.
The jitney stops directly in front of the hotel we are staying in and we hired a charter from there to the wedding so they don't even have to worry about that.
Don't even listen to people. I learned to turn deaf when it comes to outsiders about MY wedding. It's really eaasy to learn. My son taught me.
Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride
Don't even listen to people. I learned to turn deaf when it comes to outsiders about MY wedding. It's really eaasy to learn. My son taught me.
