Is it ok...

AdriandSteve Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:01 PM

Is it ok...

If i ask my sister to wear her hair differently then mine for the wedding? FYI, we are identical twins.
My mom said no that it's crossing the line into bridezilla territory.

brittndave Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:02 PM

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sure you can

RitasEngaged Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:02 PM

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ummm your mom is crazy

of course it is ok - i really don't want my bm wearing there hair like me either

Clover23 Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:02 PM

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identical twins? yes, I think that's okay and i'm sure she'll understand!!!

MrsC2010 Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:02 PM

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yeah i think its fine.

KatieG2010 Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:02 PM

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wow thats so cool having an identical twin...

i think you should- this is one day where you should have your own identity

FutureLW Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:03 PM

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I'm asking all my BMs to wear their hair up since I'm wearing mine down....it's totally fine if you ask her to wear it differently than yours!

RGEC47 Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:03 PM

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Def ok to ask her. You're being nice enough to ask, instead of letting her know her hair will be different the day of (like I would do).

mag2010 Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:03 PM

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I think you can. Your sister would understand especially since you are twins.

Jna2010 Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:03 PM

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yesi think thats fine, if i had an identitcal twin id do the same

futureMrsJSL Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:04 PM

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Posted by KatieG2010

wow thats so cool having an identical twin...

i think you should- this is one day where you should have your own identity

ITA!!! It shouldn't be a problem.

SoonToBMrsC Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:05 PM

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I think that 110% ok!! I wouldn't want anyone wearing their hair the same as me for my wedding even if it was my identical sister. I'm wearing my hair half up and half down and asking my girls to put theirs all up.

FutureMrs.M Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:05 PM

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I think its not bridezilla if you ask nicely and don't demand it

Its2Snappy Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:06 PM

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Absolutely okay. Especially since your identical twins.

Diana508 Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:06 PM

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That's totally fine and don't think you're asking too much of her.

Becca2010 Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:06 PM

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Umm it's entirely ok! Why should your sister have YOUR bridal hair?

Future Mrs H Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:06 PM

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Of course its ok! I wouldnt want my MOH having the same hairstyle as me

Golden Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:07 PM

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Uhhh, of course you can...none of my girls are allowed to wear buns in their hair lol....

BrideC Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:07 PM

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Yes!! I asked my BMs not to dothe same thing.

halfbaked Posted: Dec 30, 2009 02:08 PM

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Posted by Clover23

identical twins? yes, I think that's okay and i'm sure she'll understand!!!

ITA! You deserve the spotlight that day!

My BMs actually asked me how they should do their hair. I was like uhhhh I don't care, however the hell you want!