wears a color similar to what the bridesmaids will be wearing? My bridesmaids are wearing mocha, and the best man wants to bring a date and she asked what color should she wear b/c she wants to match him... The tuxs are black and the vest and tie are mocha..
TIA
jcaramelprincess
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Posted by Soon2BeMrsB
As long as she doesn't wear white I wouldn't sweat it.
ITA!!!!
Cookie De La Devine
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I wouldnt sweat it- she is probably trying to match so she doesnt look like a doofus when standing with him for pictures and whatnot- there all dressed it might be your wedding but there going to be taking nice pics of themselves too. Mr.Devine and I usually match not because we try it just happens that way except for sis wedding where I was Moh we purposely bought his suit to match somewhat my dress. JMO I wouldnt be pissed if someone came to my wedding wearing black or purple even when they know it might be the colors-
rendel
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Some things are just out of your control as a bride and this is one of them. I would say don't worry about it!!!
LaBellaVita622
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I did that by accident not only was is the same color but my dress was the same style as the BM's just theirs were gowns...I felt like a butt lol (it was Christmas time so I wanted to wear a Red dress)
adelya21
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who cares?? as long as its not the exact same dress as BM dresses or white it shouldnt matter IMO.
SoonToBeMrsCampos
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I think its totally fine and I can see where she's coming from, cuz I always like to match too. If it bothers u though, as if she can wear a color that compliments mocha, like tan or another shade of brown, or black to match the tuxes. Plus, mocha/brown is a common and popular color, so a reg guest may not know and may also be wearing that color.
HTH
Jna2010
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as long as its not white i think shes totally fine to wear whatever
GiannisWifey
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i mean you can't prevent people from showing up in teh same colors as your BM. My BM are in a chocolate brown color, its very likely some guests will be wearing that color dress as well.
latinaj
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Posted by AwaitingAugust
exactly - who cares if guests match the BMs .... as long as they don't match you
yup!
mrsdraskin2009
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Yeah I think thats fine...I mean, its not like we can get a an 'outfit list' of what the guests are wearing
mrzsoontobejames
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I think it's totally fine. ITA as long as she doesn't wear white then its not a problem.
FutureMrsPanuch
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when FH was in a bridal party last summer i asked what color the BP was wearing so i could match him... i wouldnt get the same color b.c i didnt want to match the BPs color. They were in purple so i wore chocolate brown... it matched but i didnt look like i was part of the party...