Re: is it rude to give photographer a must take list?
Defiantly give a must have list to your photographer !! I did and he appreciated it. He even gave me my list back before reception started to see if there was anything he missed or I still wanted. Most of the photos he was able to do in no time and some were pics he planned on doing anyway. Make sure to be specific with family portraits too..I made sure to list sibling pics, parent pics, and both families together.... Even with my list there were still a few pics I wish I got. At least with the list you know when you see your pics you won't have any regrets - between you and them you should get everything you want. Good Luck