Is it something in the air? A lot of 'conflict' on these Boards Lately

ChrissynRicky Posted: Sep 15, 2005 10:36 AM

Is it something in the air? A lot of 'conflict' on these Boards Lately

I know I had my own share, but that's now over, but it's left a question in my mind...

'What in God's name is going on lately?'

There have been a lot of confrontations on these boards (not just '06 but others) over differences of opinions.

What ever happened to responding to the original poster, answering their question and moving on?

It just seems that everyone's at each other's eyeballs lately.

W T F?

itslaurie. Posted: Sep 15, 2005 10:40 AM

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I DISAGREE this post is completely ridiculous.

ha just kidding

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Sep 15, 2005 10:40 AM

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Posted by itslaurie.

I DISAGREE this post is completely ridiculous.

ha just kidding

Jennie0898 Posted: Sep 15, 2005 10:43 AM

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Posted by Soon2BeMrs2006

Posted by itslaurie.

I DISAGREE this post is completely ridiculous.

ha just kidding

That was classic!!! But yes, Christine, I think you're right. Things here are getting alittle crazy. Maybe because this year is starting to come to an end which means we're all getting alittle closer to the big day and that means crunch time which as we all know equals stress. Who knows? Maybe we just all have our B!tch on and I'm completely wrong!!

ChrissynRicky Posted: Sep 15, 2005 10:46 AM

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You know how they say when you start hanging out with other women more often that your cycles start coinciding?

Well, I'm going to attribute that to this!

JessicaM. Posted: Sep 15, 2005 10:47 AM

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that one almost had me! LOL I don't know...I will probably get flamed for this but I think it has A LOT to do with female competition....after a while, someone somewhere is bound to get their feathers ruffled...which causes problems and then all hell breaks loose.

I really just wish we could all remain RESPECTFUL of each others ideas...I really wish Ron would block the word TACKY from these boards....that one really gets me.

ChrissynRicky Posted: Sep 15, 2005 10:48 AM

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Posted by JessicaM.

that one almost had me! LOL I don't know...I will probably get flamed for this but I think it has A LOT to do with female competition....after a while, someone somewhere is bound to get their feathers ruffled...which causes problems and then all hell breaks loose.

I really just wish we could all remain RESPECTFUL of each others ideas...I really wish Ron would block the word TACKY from these boards....that one really gets me.

MissingTheBGene Posted: Sep 15, 2005 10:51 AM

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I just don't understand why people get all crazy and defensive by what is said on the internet. Who gives a $hit - do what you effing want, but be prepared that others may not agree with you. But that's just me.

PrincessConsuela Posted: Sep 15, 2005 10:55 AM

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is it a full moon this week that could be it.

Kerrycec Posted: Sep 15, 2005 10:57 AM

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I think we're all PMS's!!! A bunch of women thrown together!! Men are so much easier!

I cannot believe I posted that. EKKK!

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Sep 15, 2005 11:01 AM

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Posted by Kerrycec

I think we're all PMS's!!! A bunch of women thrown together!! Men are so much easier!

I cannot believe I posted that. EKKK!

OMG _ I was thinking just that! I thinks its PMS time...speaking for myself here.

mariela2006 Posted: Sep 15, 2005 11:01 AM

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i also agree you should answer the writers original question and if you have an opinion say so respectfully with getting angry or upset.
we are all smart women and of course we have our own opinions that's what makes us cute and unique individuals

Happy Posting!

SIBride06 Posted: Sep 15, 2005 11:02 AM

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Christine.. Whats going on??? Have I missed something this morning?

Im always so out of the loop

JessicaM. Posted: Sep 15, 2005 11:03 AM

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I think we ALL- every bride on every board- could benefit from a time out...too bad I am too addicted to last! LOL

ChrissynRicky Posted: Sep 15, 2005 11:03 AM

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Janine - it's not anything going on - unless I missed something myself.

I was just making a statement of my own observation that some of these posts lately are a little hostile...

hmpena Posted: Sep 15, 2005 11:03 AM

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Posted by JessicaM.

I really just wish we could all remain RESPECTFUL of each others ideas...I really wish Ron would block the word TACKY from these boards....that one really gets me.

Kudos, Jess! Well said!

cindyandkevin Posted: Sep 15, 2005 11:13 AM

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I know what you mean, Christine, I've noticed it too. I try to stay away from the drama, nobody needs that right now.

It could be attributed to a lot of things; PMS, stress, the full moon, it's all possible. I just try to say my peace to answer the original post and then move on. I'll defend myself once if someone attacks me, but I refuse to go back and forth. It's just not worth it!!!

carlsbride Posted: Sep 15, 2005 11:22 AM

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itslaurie. Posted: Sep 15, 2005 11:23 AM

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I enjoy healthy debate keeps me humble- but never personal attacks, name calling and being mean for the sake of being mean.

Beth1210 Posted: Sep 15, 2005 11:23 AM

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I agree- people seem to jump on each other

I noticed it on a few boards

but if you ask for opnions- you never know what you are going to get

personally if you think something I post is Tacky- tell me