is it tacky to invite people to your bridal shower but not to your wedding? there are a few girls i used to work with who i wouldve definately invited to the wedding but now i only speak to them now and then, like once every couple of months. I think it would be nice though if they were atleast at the shower since I went to one of their baby showers and then a bridal (but this was also when i was still working there). What do you think?
tacky , rude and hurtful. do NOT invite some1 to your shower if you arent going to invite them to your wedding!
Unfortunately, I think etiquette says that whoever is invited to the shower should be invited to the wedding so the people you invite might expect to be invited to the wedding.
Posted by grkbarbie
tacky , rude and hurtful. do NOT invite some1 to your shower if you arent going to invite them to your wedding!
oh jE SUS.. OKAY! Thanks girls.
definitely tacky, i wouldn't invite them if there not inivited to the wedding
Posted by grkbarbie
tacky , rude and hurtful. do NOT invite some1 to your shower if you arent going to invite them to your wedding!
I don't think you should. You should only invite people to your bridal shower who is also invited to the wedding. They will think you are only inviting them for a gift; and you don't want to come off rude.
I always thought if you invited someone to an e-party or bridal shower you were supposed to invite them to the wedding.
Oh yes - I would not invite anyone to my shower who I was not inviting to the wedding...
Posted by springsandra
FH and I were invited to a Jack and Jill shower in a church basement for a co-worker (at the time) of his a few years ago. They charged $25 at t the door and had raffles throughout the night (that you had to pay for). All the money was going towards paying for the wedding.
None of the co-workers (including us) were invited to the wedding.
It was *weird*!!! I don't usually feel that way about anything, but it felt really strange to be at what felt like a charity function to pay for someone's wedding. (Especially one we never went to.)
I'm just glad someone said not to bring a gift! I would've felt even more foolish then.
I hope they had a wonderful wedding, don't get me wrong, but it was a one-of-a-kind experience.
If you want to celebrate with your co-workers, I suggest going out to drinks with them after work one night, not inviting them to your eparty if you're not planning to have them at your wedding.
I wouldn't invite anyone to the Bridal Shower unless they're invited to the Wedding
I think it is hurtful more so than tacky. The people may think you just invited them for the gift. I understand your sentiment and real meanings though!
Posted by springsandra
FH and I were invited to a Jack and Jill shower in a church basement for a co-worker (at the time) of his a few years ago. They charged $25 at t the door and had raffles throughout the night (that you had to pay for). All the money was going towards paying for the wedding.
None of the co-workers (including us) were invited to the wedding.
It was *weird*!!! I don't usually feel that way about anything, but it felt really strange to be at what felt like a charity function to pay for someone's wedding. (Especially one we never went to.)
I'm just glad someone said not to bring a gift! I would've felt even more foolish then.
I hope they had a wonderful wedding, don't get me wrong, but it was a one-of-a-kind experience.
If you want to celebrate with your co-workers, I suggest going out to drinks with them after work one night, not inviting them to your eparty if you're not planning to have them at your wedding.
Yup, definitely don't invite them to the shower if they're not invited to the wedding.
Posted by springsandra
FH and I were invited to a Jack and Jill shower in a church basement for a co-worker (at the time) of his a few years ago. They charged $25 at t the door and had raffles throughout the night (that you had to pay for). All the money was going towards paying for the wedding.
None of the co-workers (including us) were invited to the wedding.
It was *weird*!!! I don't usually feel that way about anything, but it felt really strange to be at what felt like a charity function to pay for someone's wedding. (Especially one we never went to.)
I'm just glad someone said not to bring a gift! I would've felt even more foolish then.
I hope they had a wonderful wedding, don't get me wrong, but it was a one-of-a-kind experience.
If you want to celebrate with your co-workers, I suggest going out to drinks with them after work one night, not inviting them to your eparty if you're not planning to have them at your wedding.
