one MOH and just one other BM? My mother is telling me this doesn't look right, but I just had a BM drop out because she's pregnant. Do I need to ask another girl, or will one BM plus the MOH be okay?
pinkgirl
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I think its fine.
nylisa
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If that is what you want then it is fine.
KathleenG
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I think it is fine as well, I see absolutely no problems with it. Don't forget some people opt to have a 'kings wedding', which is only the best man and maid of honor, another great idea.
usuk2004
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My mom thought it was strange to have just one MOH and one BM, too. Don't know why...? I think it's just fine.
BTW, I'm having just an MOH Didn't know it was called a 'King's wedding' Cute!
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I would love to have a 'Kings Wedding' (didn't know it had a name either!) but I already asked a BM and would feel terrible un-asking her.
It seems to be something that only moms worry about, so maybe it's just an old-fashioned thing.
Thanks for your help, girls!
embee
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i don't think its weird. it will actually probably make life a lot easier on you! my fsil had two people in her bridal party. it looked fine.
jenny2penny
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I don't think so. I have 1 MOH, 2 BM
butterfly20
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its fine, it should be the people you want, not a specific number
Spitzergirl
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I am having
3 Best M.
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1 MOH 3 BridesM.
1-flowergirl 1-flowerboy.
I am paying too much $$ for my photo's to have strangers in my wedding. My mom, started mentioning some other people to put in my wedding to make it look even.
As far as I am concenered, the negative part I already know there will be 1 Bridesmaid giving me problems and ready to drop out. So, I will probaly be left with only 2 Bridesmaid.
I feel the show must go on with out them. It is our big day, and you want close family member and friends in your bridal party no stranger.!!!!!!!!!
not as weird as it is to have a 22 person bp which is what i am having and my mom keeps making fun of me about!
TwoBugs
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LOL Ciminok!!
Thanks for all your input, ladies - I feel so much better!!
brideinapril
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I don't think so at all, all i am having is a maitron of honor (my mom) and best man (his best friend).
DrmnBlnd
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This is what I am having for a BP, and I am having the BEST time with them! Having only 2 girls has made things a lot easier for me (not so much bickering) and they are having a BLAST. So, don't worry, and have fun!
Nora101004
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That's all I'm having.
AliKing
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Its not weird at all! I have been to weddings where there is just a MOH and BM. It is completely up to you! Is she concerned because now that the BM dropped out that you there will be more GM? if so, you do not have to ask someone to be in your wedding party to keep the numbers even. My husband had more guys then I had girls.
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It is not weird at all. My brother-in-law is getting married in June and they are having a very small bridal party. Instead of having all their friends, they are having just family members. The bride's sister is the maid of honor and the groom's sister is the bridesmaid. The groom's twin brother is the best man and his other brother is the groomsmen. They have 3 little kids in the wedding party as the ring bearers/flower girls and that is it.
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This is such a relief...I had a big cry this morning when my BM dropped out (making me cry even more because I was being so selfish when her pregnancy is such a great thing), but now I know it will be fine. I don't even care if we wind up having more guys than girls. It's such a small thing in the grand scheme of a marriage.
