You&fh disagree w/about the wedding?For us it is a big issue of not having a church wedding,i am catholic&fh is an atheiast,although he was raised lutheran.I wanna marry in a cathholic church & he doesn't want to convert,does he have to Our plans are on hold for the moment thats why we haven't chosen our hall i am very sad about this.I am not trying to change who he is or what he believes i just always wanted a catholic church wedding this wasn't an issue till we started planning please halp ladies
aliasPook
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If something as simple as getting married in a hall vs. the church (ok, religion is a serious thing, in no way simple, but b/c he is not Catholic, you do have an option...)is making you question the last seven years, maybe you need to dig a little bit further. Is something else bothering you? There has to be a way that you can comprimise parts of your wedding, because this is just the beginning. You will now be sharing your finances, housing and child rearing with this person, and you will not always agree.
MISHY
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HE DOESN'T HELP ME WITH ANYTHING SO AS FAR AS I AM CONCERNED THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING HE CAN B*TCH ABOUT.. i AM NOT BITTER AT ALL TEEHEE
whoa...wacky...with all due respect...HE SHOULD NOT CAVE!!!
would you cave if someone asked you to do something against your beliefs??
I am an atheist and I would never EVER get married in a church...there are certain phrases that would never come out of my mouth..that are required for a church ceremony...
Imagine that he asked you to prove your love to him by pledging allegence to a Hindu god? you wouldn't do it...
just b/c someone is atheist doesn't mean that they don't care about religion...if you were marrying someone who was Buddhist or Jewish or Shinto or a Satanist...who you ask them to convert? or say things that went against their religion...
