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Is there something wrong with me?

Im a Pepper Posted:

Is there something wrong with me?

I totally don't feel excited about the wedding now. Blah.

Summertimegal424 Posted:

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y do you feel that way?

Im a Pepper Posted:

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Posted by Summertimegal424

y do you feel that way?



I dunno! It's like, I'm over it. I just feel like.. let's get it over with lol
meara Posted:

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Any particular reason do you think? Stress? upset about anything else? or it could be normal to just ebb and flow?
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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Posted by Future Pepper


Posted by Summertimegal424

y do you feel that way?



I dunno! It's like, I'm over it. I just feel like.. let's get it over with lol



lol i can see that happening, are u like done with everything? or at like a stand still?
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by Future Pepper


Posted by Summertimegal424

y do you feel that way?



I dunno! It's like, I'm over it. I just feel like.. let's get it over with lol



totally agree with ya... i was never all about the wedding ... its more about the finally being married after being together 8 yrs
galgirl Posted:

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i got through phases where I feel super excited and then I feel like whatever.. I also feel like it is far away, I think its natural.
Im a Pepper Posted:

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Posted by meara


Any particular reason do you think? Stress? upset about anything else? or it could be normal to just ebb and flow?



I honestly don't have much WR stress. The planning has gone smoothly but I guess I'm settled into the idea of the wedding and I've been getting upset with FH over little things recently. Doesn't seem normal!
Im a Pepper Posted:

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Posted by galgirl

i got through phases where I feel super excited and then I feel like whatever.. I also feel like it is far away, I think its natural.



Yeah, there have been times where I definitely couldn't contain my excitement and other times where I'm just like, ok it's just a wedding lol I guess you're right and it's just natural to go through these wedding excitement peaks and valleys.
dazies1011 Posted:

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Posted by Future Pepper

I totally don't feel excited about the wedding now. Blah.

I know what you mean....Im nervous right now.
Im a Pepper Posted:

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lol sorry girls. I don't mean to be a downer. I just feel strangely detached from this whole wedding thing recently.
chicky724 Posted:

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I feel the same way lately... I think it's because I haven't done anything wedding related since I bought my dress in September. Hopefully now that the holiday craziness is over I can get my butt in gear!

Summertimegal424 Posted:

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Posted by galgirl

i got through phases where I feel super excited and then I feel like whatever.. I also feel like it is far away, I think its natural.



i feel the same way ...for the most part im like whatever...but then every so often i get this incredible high lol
dazies1011 Posted:

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Posted by Summertimegal424


Posted by galgirl

i got through phases where I feel super excited and then I feel like whatever.. I also feel like it is far away, I think its natural.



i feel the same way ...for the most part im like whatever...but then every so often i get this incredible high lol

Sooo true...
Kimbalina Posted:

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Crashing to tell you that... A LOT of the girls on the 08 board went through the same thing. I went through it too.. It was about knowing that the wedding is coming and there are a lot of things on your mind.. wedding related or not.

Don't worry it is truly NORMAL!!!!! It happens to a lot of people and it is natural. Soon there will be a turn around and your excitement will return!
flairforfashion Posted:

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I am just like you Bonnie. I am at the point that I just want to get over with it. I have been waiting too long!

Im a Pepper Posted:

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Posted by Kimbalina

Crashing to tell you that... A LOT of the girls on the 08 board went through the same thing. I went through it too.. It was about knowing that the wedding is coming and there are a lot of things on your mind.. wedding related or not.

Don't worry it is truly NORMAL!!!!! It happens to a lot of people and it is natural. Soon there will be a turn around and your excitement will return!



It's comforting to know that this has happened to other girls. I guess I'm a bit anxious about some NWR stuff and it's making me feel disconnected from my own wedding lol
shell1879 Posted:

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i'm like that too i just want these vendors booked and i'm just blah about everything else right now

but i gotta get moving on more DIY stuff
megsher Posted:

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I feel like this sometimes, or if I get stressed about getting it all done, I just want to elope.

Ella and Ben Posted:

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I sometimes feel the same way and based on everyone's elses comments I guess it's normal.

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