Nothing wrong with you honey I absolutely went through the same thing over the past few months. We weren't doing any wedding planning and I was just not even interested in even talking about it. I even stopped looking at LIW for a lil bit. But now that the holidays are over, I've gotten back into the full swing of things. You'll see, it'll all start up with you again!
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I go through times that I feel like that as well... but once the wedding fever comes back, I come back FULL blown...don't worry..it'll pass
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y do you feel that way?
I dunno! It's like, I'm over it. I just feel like.. let's get it over with lol
totally agree with ya... i was never all about the wedding ... its more about the finally being married after being together 8 yrs
ugh that is what i keep telling FH...im just so ready to be a mrs. and work on spending the rest of my life with him...this wedding (and limos, tuxes, florists, DJs..whatever)
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I feel the exact same way. I just want to get it over with already. I am so excited to marry FH but all of the other nonesense that comes along with wedding planning has really got me down.
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I went through a period where I wasn't excited. I got really afraid like, what did that mean? Did I not want to marry FH anymore? etc. I realized it's because how long can you really be on a planning high for? Sometimes you just need a break. The excitement will come back eventually. In the meantime don't freak, it's normal.
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i say stop and take a breath... maybe you and FH can have a 'date' night... forget about planning the wedding and enjoy each other's company!
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i say stop and take a breath... maybe you and FH can have a 'date' night... forget about planning the wedding and enjoy each other's company!
aww thanks we actually have date nights frequently and it's really not the planning that has me steering clear of the wedding. So I'm not really sure what'll get me out of this anti-wedding funk. lol
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I went through a period where I wasn't excited. I got really afraid like, what did that mean? Did I not want to marry FH anymore? etc. I realized it's because how long can you really be on a planning high for? Sometimes you just need a break. The excitement will come back eventually. In the meantime don't freak, it's normal.
So funny you said that... for a moment I got scared that I was so not into our wedding... thinking maybe it was because I didn't actually want to get married. I know that's not true and I'm so happy to marry FH... I guess when you're just not in wedding mode, you're not in wedding mode....
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I went through a period where I wasn't excited. I got really afraid like, what did that mean? Did I not want to marry FH anymore? etc. I realized it's because how long can you really be on a planning high for? Sometimes you just need a break. The excitement will come back eventually. In the meantime don't freak, it's normal.
So funny you said that... for a moment I got scared that I was so not into our wedding... thinking maybe it was because I didn't actually want to get married. I know that's not true and I'm so happy to marry FH... I guess when you're just not in wedding mode, you're not in wedding mode....
Yeah, I got paranoid. And my cousin canceled her wedding last year so I started to get worried I would do that too. Then I realized I was just stress about a lot of things and needed a break. So I didn't do any planning or care too much about things for awhile and then once we got close to the shower I got excited again. And now, I'm back to being super excited again. Things just come in waves.
It's impossible to be in super hyper excited mode ALL the time. So don't worry!
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It comes in waves for me too. I'm over it and then I get excited then I'm over it again. You're probably just in a lull in the planning and with the holidays, it's nice to not have to stress about stuff. You'll get excited a month or two I bet as planning starts to pick up again
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I get that way too. FH and I already live together and nothing is really changing once we get married, other than the title. I have moments where I feel like 'What's the big deal?' and other times I am excited.
