One of my BM’s used to be friendly with FH, they had a small falling out and don’t talk much anymore. I heard she was talking sh*t about FH behind our backs so I confronted her Friday, not only did she lie about saying it but she got mad at me for asking her to respect ME and not to talk negative about FH behind my back I said I am getting married and it would be nice to know my friends support me in that and her response was “How much support do you really think you are gonna get from me? Sure I’m happy you are getting married but I’m not happy that you are marrying FH” she also said that she thinks that the compromises FH and I come to to solve issues in our relationship are ridiculous.
Am I wrong for contemplating kicking her out?
dante31300
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Kick her out. You need to have people around you who are genuinely happy for you. No stress on your wedding day.
agraydc
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if that is her attitude i would kick her to the BM curb.....
RitasEngaged
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I would kick her out!! Planning a wedding is stressful enough without having to deal with her crap!
Autumnbride03
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I'd try talking to her once more (calmly and maturely!) everything that has been said here- that nobody knows how a relationship really is except for the people who are IN it, and (assuming he didn't wrong you, or do something like murder her dog lol) that she is your friend and she needs to support your decision.
If she still refuses to budge and acts negative and immature, give her the boot.
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She can't expect to be in the bp after that!! I'm sure she knows she's not going to be a part of it. You might as well kick her out.
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I think she needs to go...but I would give her a little time. Maybe she will apologize and explain her side of what's going on. Don't wait to long and if no apology comes, out out out out of the bridal party she goes!!
gina409
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vote her off the island!!!!!!!u need support around u not drama
irishgrl1017
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I would honestly really think about it. If you think that she is only going to cause drama in your life...then yes I would, but its a big decision so I would calm down first and think about it
MyLobster
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BOOTED and rightfully so!
lizzie217
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If she feels this way about your decision to marry FH she should have declined being your BM to begin with!!
browneyes
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id kick her out. You want to be happy and dont need ne more un need drama.. And if shes not happy for her then you have her in ur party...
