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Is this rude?

Original post by SchmearandGoose

Is it rude to send an invite to someone on your ' B' list just as the due date for the response cards is coming up (in about 3 days after you mail the invite?)

EverlovingEv Posted:

Re: Is this rude?


Posted by erdbeere


Posted by HenryAlba07

I would be offended too.



yep, me too. If you really wanna invite this person now you could always lie a bit and call the up and say you haven't received their rsvp yet and then just say it must have gotten lost or something like that.



yes! that definitely works! i did it
SusiBtoM Posted:

Re: Is this rude?


Posted by erdbeere


Posted by HenryAlba07

I would be offended too.



yep, me too. If you really wanna invite this person now you could always lie a bit and call the up and say you haven't received their rsvp yet and then just say it must have gotten lost or something like that.



Great idea !
Aug07OFCbride Posted:

Re: Is this rude?


Posted by XFINALLYX

if it makes you feel any better, i sent out save the dates and now FMIL is getting on our case about inviting some of our friends so we have to 'uninvite' some of our friends. im so pissed


omg, the same sort of thing happened to us too! herendous!
jenn122397 Posted:

Re: Is this rude?

IMHO yes - i think they would realize

DananTodd Posted:

Re: Is this rude?


Posted by erdbeere


Posted by HenryAlba07

I would be offended too.



yep, me too. If you really wanna invite this person now you could always lie a bit and call the up and say you haven't received their rsvp yet and then just say it must have gotten lost or something like that.




My mom is the QUEEN of this...she has six kids, so that;s aLOT of weddings....
army wife to be Posted:

Re: Is this rude?

i know you already got alot of advice but i totally agree with calling and pretending you sent it. Then when they ask what adress you have change the number or street a little bit.. maybe even the town!! haha

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