Is it rude to send an invite to someone on your ' B' list just as the due date for the response cards is coming up (in about 3 days after you mail the invite?)
EverlovingEv
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Posted by HenryAlba07
I would be offended too.
yep, me too. If you really wanna invite this person now you could always lie a bit and call the up and say you haven't received their rsvp yet and then just say it must have gotten lost or something like that.
yes! that definitely works! i did it
SusiBtoM
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Posted by HenryAlba07
I would be offended too.
yep, me too. If you really wanna invite this person now you could always lie a bit and call the up and say you haven't received their rsvp yet and then just say it must have gotten lost or something like that.
Great idea !
Aug07OFCbride
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Posted by XFINALLYX
if it makes you feel any better, i sent out save the dates and now FMIL is getting on our case about inviting some of our friends so we have to 'uninvite' some of our friends. im so pissed
omg, the same sort of thing happened to us too! herendous!
jenn122397
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IMHO yes - i think they would realize
DananTodd
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Posted by erdbeere
Posted by HenryAlba07
I would be offended too.
yep, me too. If you really wanna invite this person now you could always lie a bit and call the up and say you haven't received their rsvp yet and then just say it must have gotten lost or something like that.
My mom is the QUEEN of this...she has six kids, so that;s aLOT of weddings....
army wife to be
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i know you already got alot of advice but i totally agree with calling and pretending you sent it. Then when they ask what adress you have change the number or street a little bit.. maybe even the town!! haha