Is your FH as excited as you??

Original post by Lools

Jan 27, 2007 08:49 AM

Hey girls, I'm feeling frustrated with my FH. We have a lot on our plate financially right now between the wedding and buying a house, but I feel like I'm the only one who's generating any excitement over the wedding. He's too stressed about how we're paying for everything to be excited and it's putting a damper on it. Anyone else in the same situation?? Hope I'm not alone!

Sara_Sage Posted: Jan 28, 2007 01:00 AM

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Not really. I wish he was more into it. He doesn't seem to really care much right now. I think once we get closer to the actual day he'll get more into it. Right now it's like 'meh...whatever'

LyseeH Posted: Jan 28, 2007 02:29 AM

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Posted by billandme

My FH has always been excited about getting married. One thing that he said he'll never get excited about is all the small details. He said all that matters to him is the two of us in front of our family and friends ....... saying our vows. That's all that is important to him...........not the flowers, not the invites, not the favours.......just the actual ceremony...........

BUT, I do see that since it's 3.5 months now, he's gettting a bit more interested in SOME things. Not A LOT, but some. He talks more about our wedding and says how he can't wait for it........

My FH says the same thing. As we are really close, he doesn't really want to talk about it, he just wants it to happen already. But when he needed to do something or make a decision, he did it.

MF9282 Posted: Jan 28, 2007 05:47 PM

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hmm.....mine is excited about being husband and wife and looking foward to the wedding. he just does not show the wedding itself and all the details that go into it with the same respect that do. He really doesn't help with planning AT ALL.

afrodyt2000 Posted: Jan 28, 2007 06:11 PM

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My FH isn't excited either and our wedding is now 3 months away. He's usually not that kind of person though. He gets excited about video games and food. That's about it. I know he's happy we're getting married but he just doesn't seem very excited either.