It might be over

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Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

OMG .. No ... I hope everything went good last night and realized that you cant live with out eachother... However I do know what you mean FH calls me cheap all the time & i think he thinks a lamborgini is more important than a house sometimes but I feel everything can be worked out except lying and cheating. maybe you should always keep a separate bank account in a different bank for yourself so you can feel a litttle secure...

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yea, in this case you wouldnt be any different than any other mom. I think every mom has that 'just in case' bank account that noone knows about!!!

How did it go last night??

hang in there, ill pray for you

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Posted by BoxOfRocks

I am so sorry this is happening. Have you tried pre-marital counseling or visiting a financial advisor?

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Took the words right out of my mouth . . . I would strongly consider doing both. Remember its 'for better or for worse' it can't be sunny everyday, sometimes it has to rain so the flowers can grow

Just speaking from experience of being married over 10 years, I would not NOT get married over finances. My dh and I are different when it comes to spending money but it has always worked out. I would never get divorced over this difference. We have talked through the years and he has gotten better with the saving over spending but he will never be like me and I know that.
I do the bills each week. I have shown him where all the money goes so he knows that there is no extra money that I am not telling him about. We both get spending money each week and anything extra he makes on ebay or tips, he keeps.
I wish you the best and maybe conseling might be the answer. If this is your only problem, I would reconsider your decision.

Hi girls, we did not get to talk as much as I would have liked. But all in all we both realize that we love each other and it is worth working on. I am going to look in to a counselor for couples.

THis whole weekend, I have cried so much that last night my eyes were exhausted. But the important thing is that we both want to work it out.

I think we are just getting nervous. It seems that there is such an emphasis on money being the biggest problems for couples that we were getting psyched out.

'Love conquers all' Right?

Thanks again for all of your support and advice.

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Posted by kfox715

Hi girls, we did not get to talk as much as I would have liked. But all in all we both realize that we love each other and it is worth working on. I am going to look in to a counselor for couples.

THis whole weekend, I have cried so much that last night my eyes were exhausted. But the important thing is that we both want to work it out.

I think we are just getting nervous. It seems that there is such an emphasis on money being the biggest problems for couples that we were getting psyched out.

'Love conquers all' Right?

Thanks again for all of your support and advice.

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YAY !!!!! I am Sooooooo Happy that you guys realized that Love Conquers all !!!!
I am so happy for you!!

i am glad to hear the good news. you were my only date twin, i'd hate to lose ya!


best wishes for a long and happy wedded life together

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Posted by kfox715

Hi girls, we did not get to talk as much as I would have liked. But all in all we both realize that we love each other and it is worth working on. I am going to look in to a counselor for couples.

THis whole weekend, I have cried so much that last night my eyes were exhausted. But the important thing is that we both want to work it out.

I think we are just getting nervous. It seems that there is such an emphasis on money being the biggest problems for couples that we were getting psyched out.

'Love conquers all' Right?

Thanks again for all of your support and advice.

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I'm glad that you two are going to try & work it out. For FH & I even when we fight/disagree we both know that deep down we love each other & will put in the effort to make things work. For better or for worse.....

Yeah, I am glad things are getting better.

I think your problem is something we all deal with on some level.

Good luck and things will get better !!!

You girls are the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i hope it works out, money issues can be a problem but if you are in love you will get through it and be happy..

Glad to hear you guys will try and work it out!!!

Im sorry...

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I agree with the ladies that suggested couples counseling...if you're both willing to try and make it work your love is worth fighting for

Hope everything works out for you!

I'm glad things are looking better. Have you tried having 'budget meetings?' FH and I try to sit down once a week for an hour or so and talk about things coming up that we'll need extra money for, payig off vendors, etc. HTH!