I am trying not to read too much into it, but here is what is tipping me off:
My MOH says she can't see me that day b/c she's got something at her shul/temple (we ALWAYS see each other on Sundays)
My BM told me she's babysitting her 2 nieces all day and won't be around.
My FH made sure I was sleeping over the house Saturday night (I slept there last night and am sleeping there tonight - normally I would've gone home Saturday sometime).
I got a couple of shower gifts in the mail this week.
Does it add up to pouring??? I hope so!!
Kimbalina
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It sounds like drizzle........
Browneyesncute
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YAY!!! keep us updated!
PP424
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I hope you got an umbrella cause it sounds like showers are heading your way!!!
Definitely!! Have you checked youre registry..did things start flying off all at once??
That's awesome..have a great time...don't worry about the BM drama...it's your day!!!
Give us a full update on Monday.. I'll be waiting and stalking you if you don't!!!
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Definitely!! Have you checked youre registry..did things start flying off all at once??
That's awesome..have a great time...don't worry about the BM drama...it's your day!!!
Give us a full update on Monday.. I'll be waiting and stalking you if you don't!!!
I checked my registry yesterday and it looked about the same but I am going to check late tomorrow and see how it looks! Of course I will give you a full update on Monday!!!
RisiLeigh
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So, now I REALLY think it's official!! My FSIL invited me, FH and my parents to her house supposedly for a belated Father's Day BBQ - yeah riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight LOL!!!
We have to be there around 1:30-ish so my guess is that my guests are arriving around 1. I am so excited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Of course I will post pics prob tomorrow (I don't even have my camera with me!).
Kimbalina
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jonsgirl04
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Marissa I want to see pictures!!!!
RisiLeigh
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Marissa I want to see pictures!!!!
Don't worry!!! I will get them up either later tonight or tomorrow - since I don't have my camera I have to wait for my MOH and anyone else to email them to me!!!
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Have a great time!!
JTsGal829
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def. sounds like it's gonna to pour!!! hope you have your umbrella!!! have a great time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lyss0908
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Get your umbrella ready!!!! Have a great time, post lots of pics!!
lyss0908
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Get your umbrella ready!!! Have a great day- take lots of pics!!
Apparently my comp s*cks today! Posted twice lol
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WOOo HOOO I hope it does...I cant wait to see pics!!!!
Soon 2b Mrs Bev
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You better get your raincoat, umbrella and galoshes ready!! I looks like its goint to rain today!
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Well it poured!!! And I am sorry to say that it wasnt the fabulous day that everyone else has due to my FSIL and MOH drama...
Apparently, before FH and I even got there, the 2 of them had (more) issues. My MOH and 1 BM hid it pretty well, but the second we got there, FSIL dragged FH outside and I could see that she was venting to him. Well, that was it for me... I saw that and I was instantly not okay... and I already had a Xanax in me, so I couldn't take another!
My FSIL essentially did the entire shower herself. Dont get me wrong - it was very nice and I got SO many gifts OH MY LORD!!!
But my MOH was NOT herself at all bc had she been herself, she prob would've gone off on FSIL and then been kicked out of FSIL's house! So, she kept quiet and helped me open gifts, etc. She didn't even want to say goodbye to FSIL b/c she wanted to avoid a confrontation (out of respect for me). She said goodbye to FMIL and FMIL tried talking to MOH and MOH told her, this is not the time or place b/c Marisa is here. So FMIL followed MOH outside! And FSIL followed them both outside!!! And all I was told was that words were said between all parties...
I seriously cannot handle this... FSIL SAYS she isn't like that and she can hide it if she doesn't like someone, etc. but today was a clear example that she can't! She looked miserable and pissed off and was making snappy comments.
I don't know how I am going to get thru the RD and wedding day with the 2 of them. My MOH can control herself but clearly, FSIL can not. My MOH tried to do the right thing by walking away and it backfired b/c they followed her and had words anyway. FH filled me in on some of the drama on our way home and thankfully, he is NOT taking sides and does NOT hate my MOH (due to whatever FSIL has been feeding him). He knows how his sister is, and he knows how my MOH is so he's keeping neutral.
My MOH is very upset and just feels like the shower didn't go at all as she would've wanted for me. She says she's going to take me on a Lady Liberty Cruise just her and I, to make up for it (even though I told her she doesn't need to).
I won't say it was a great day... it was SO nice to see everyone and get amazing presents and have this party thrown all for me! My anxiety just could not handle things...
