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It Poured today at my shower! & My SIL didnt come

Original post by Nichelmus

I had such a great time. It was a surprise shower at the Viana Hotel & Spa. Can you believe my sister in law didnt come

J9JP2013 Posted:

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Posted by scottsbride

Tell her to take 3 Motrin and get over it lol



For real! If my FSIL does that, she had better lie to me about why she didn't come and it better involve the emergency room. LOL
nella20005 Posted:

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Posted by scottsbride

Tell her to take 3 Motrin and get over it lol




Sad but true. Just see her for who she is. I would even be direct with her and say are you in or out. But give yourself time to think about your approach. But honestly let it go. My mom and aunt (Her SIL) were always at 'war.' Don't get me wrong she is a loving aunt but a horrible SIL to my mom. 33 years later my mom is still bitter over my parent's wedding drama. To the point that my mom asked me not to invite her. My thing is eventually you will have to let it go. You can't pick your family. Forgive but don't forget. And don't pay for her alterations. If she loves her brother, she'll find a way to get her dress altered.
angelicd77 Posted:

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Posted by scottsbride

Tell her to take 3 Motrin and get over it lol



I say this about my in-laws all the time!
natalierose1085 Posted:

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Posted by Nichelmus


Posted by nella20005

How is your relationship with your SIL.... When I got engaged, my SIL did not even say congrats. Then when I asked her to be a BM she said no. She said I should have more important people to be a BM. Come to find out she was jealous because she wanted to get married. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you. You were surrounded by people who love you. That's all that matters. It's her lost. Don't let her steal your joy!!!



I thought our relationship was good until we started finalizing our wedding. January 1 after she paid her down payment on her bridemaids dress she called my fiance and said she didnt want to be in it. Now she saying she's doing it but I have to pay for her alterations. Now she didnt show up to my shower but she told my sister she was coming. I dont know what is going on with her but I just couldnt believe she didnt come but she had their mother bring her stuff like the party bags, cupcakes and etc from the shower.



it sounds like she is jealous! some people can't handle being happy for someone else when they obviously aren't happy themselves, and act like immature little biatches. just ignore her and let her go have her tantrums! don't let it ruin anything for you because she just wants attention and this is supposed to be about you!!!!!!
Nichelmus Posted:

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Posted by Nichelmus


Posted by nella20005

How is your relationship with your SIL.... When I got engaged, my SIL did not even say congrats. Then when I asked her to be a BM she said no. She said I should have more important people to be a BM. Come to find out she was jealous because she wanted to get married. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you. You were surrounded by people who love you. That's all that matters. It's her lost. Don't let her steal your joy!!!



I thought our relationship was good until we started finalizing our wedding. January 1 after she paid her down payment on her bridemaids dress she called my fiance and said she didnt want to be in it. Now she saying she's doing it but I have to pay for her alterations. Now she didnt show up to my shower but she told my sister she was coming. I dont know what is going on with her but I just couldnt believe she didnt come but she had their mother bring her stuff like the party bags, cupcakes and etc from the shower.



it sounds like she is jealous! some people can't handle being happy for someone else when they obviously aren't happy themselves, and act like immature little biatches. just ignore her and let her go have her tantrums! don't let it ruin anything for you because she just wants attention and this is supposed to be about you!!!!!!



Exactly
RussianBride Posted:

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I agree, she's probably jealous of you, that's all. Don't let her get to you - brush it off & move on! This is your wedding & you should be surrounded by ppl who truly are happy for you & not those who are just doing it because they feel they have to.
My FSIL - well FH's SIL has been distant too - never responds to my group texts & doesn't ask about wedding plans. Ugh I don't have time to deal with it.
Nichelmus Posted:

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I posted pictures of my shower in my album

2013Bride Posted:

It Poured today at my shower! & My SIL didnt come

Looks like you had a beautiful shower! I love that your dog was able to attend!!!

scottsbride Posted:

It Poured today at my shower! & My SIL didnt come

Looks like a great time! You look beautiful!! The dog with the bow....please stop the cuteness lol

Nichelmus Posted:

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Posted by 2013Bride

Looks like you had a beautiful shower! I love that your dog was able to attend!!!



Thank You
RussianBride Posted:

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Love your dress & your doggy looks soooo cute!!!! Glad you had an awesome pour-down of a shower!

db276952 Posted:

It Poured today at my shower! & My SIL didnt come

Congrats! My SIL didn't come to mine either lol - Oh well, some people are just weird. The silver lining: I never ever ever have to go out of my way for one of her events. Glad you had an awesome time regardless :) Your pics are so cute.

Nichelmus Posted:

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Posted by db276952

Congrats! My SIL didn't come to mine either lol - Oh well, some people are just weird. The silver lining: I never ever ever have to go out of my way for one of her events. Glad you had an awesome time regardless :) Your pics are so cute.



I feel the same way. I'm not going out my way for her
MnJ0906 Posted:

It Poured today at my shower! & My SIL didnt come

Congrats!! Don't worry about your SIL, ignore it. When my FH proposed my SIL went from friend to enemy #1. I used to get mad but now, I just ignore her :) too many things to be excited about, like... ur getting married!! :)

Nichelmus Posted:

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Posted by MnJ0906

Congrats!! Don't worry about your SIL, ignore it. When my FH proposed my SIL went from friend to enemy #1. I used to get mad but now, I just ignore her :) too many things to be excited about, like... ur getting married!! :)



Thank You. What is up with the SIL's?

She's been trying to pull out the wedding because she said its to expensive so I'm up in the air with her to my wedding date,
Roxannebowen79 Posted:

It Poured today at my shower! & My SIL didnt come

Awwww congrats!!!

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