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**IT SHOWERED YESTERDAY**BUT I AM JUST A TAD BIT SAD!

Original post by poogie

YES IT SHOWERED YESTERDAY AND MY MOM, SISTER AND DAUGHTER GOT ME GOOD. THEY TOLD ME THAT MY AUNTIE WAS HAVING A FUNCTION AT HER BUILDING WHERE THEY WERE GOING TO HAVE A PALM READING AND A MASSAGE LADY PLUS YOU COULD EAT AND ALL FOR $10 PP. SO OKAY I HAD NOTHING ELSE TODAY AND MADE THE DECISION TO GO.....SO MY MOM CAME AND PICKED ME UP ALONG WITH MY TWO SONS AND WE WENT TO MY AUNTIES....SINCE SHE LIVES IN A BUILDING I PAYED NO ATTENTION TO THE PARKED CARS......

WE GO IN THEN I AM LOOKING AT THE DECORATIONS ALONG WITH THE BALLOONS AND COLORS THINKING TO MYSELF....'DAM THOSE COLORS LOOK FAMILIAR'.....'SUPRISE' CAME THE BIGGEST YELL EVER!!!! I SAID WHAT THE F#$#!!!!!! AND STARTED TO TEAR UP.....MY FRIEND OF WHOM HAS BEEN HELPING FROM HER BED DUE TO HER BABY TRYING TO COME EARLY PLANNED EVERYTHING ALONG WITH MY MOM, SISTER AND DAUGHTER AND KEPT IT A SECRET.

IT WAS NICE COZY AND WE HAD A LOT OF FUN.

NOW...........................................................................
NO ONE FROM MY FH'S FAMILY SHOWED UP....I MEAN NO ONE....OMG I WAS LIKE WERE THEY INVITED? WHAT HAPPENED?.....YES THEY WERE AND THEY RSVP'ED THAT THEY WOULD BE THERE. HE HAS 4 SISTERS, HIS MOM, 4 AUNTIES AND HIS GRANDMOTHER....OKAY GRANT IT THEY LIVE IN QUEENS/BRONX AND BROOKLYN AND NONE OF THEM DRIVE WITH TEH EXCEPTION OF 1 AND SHE IS A BM IN MY WEDDING....NOPE SHE DID NOT SHOW UP!!!!!!!!! SO WHAT KINDA OF GAME IS SHE PLAYING? SEE THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DEAL WITH IGNORANT PEOPLE. IF MY FMIL WANTED TO COME ALL SHE HAD TO DO WAS CALL MY FH AND HE WOULD HAVE PICKED HER AND ANYONE ELSE UP.

WHEN HE CAME TO PICK MY UP HE SAYS...'WHERE IS MY FAMILY?' I SAID NOTHING AND MY SISTER WALKED AWAY, BUT MY DAUGHTER (MOUTH ALL MIGHTY) SAID....'OH YOU MEAN THE ONE'S THAT HAVE EVERYTHING TO SAY?'......'THEY DID NOT SHOW, NOR CALL TO SAY THEY WERENT COMING......AND THAT'S F'ED UP' HE GOT SO MAD AND CALLED ALL OF THEM ON THE PHONE......
1 SISTER SAID...'OH I GOT OFF FROM WORK AND WAS SO TIRED...WOULD HAVE TO MY HAIR AND THEN IT WOULD HAVE BEEN TOO LATE' BUT SHE SHE FORGOT THAT SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE WAS OFF THIS WEEKEND!!!!!!!!!
2 SISTER=BM IN WEDDING....TOLD SISTER #1 THAT SHE HAD TO WORK AND NEEDED THE MONEY SO SHE COULDNT COME
MOTHER=SAYS SHE HAD NO WAY TO GET THERE!!!!!
OKAY THESE ARE THE ONES RANTING AND RANTING ABOUT WHO WE DIDNT INVITE FROM HIS FAMILY....SEE I DONT NEED THEM MESSING UP OUR DAY AND WE PRAYED AND VOWED THAT WE WOULD LET THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEVER-THE-LESS I HAD A GREAT TIME...GO LOTS AND LOTS OF GIFT CARDS AS I WANTED ALONG WITH MANY OTHER BEAUTIFUL GIFTS.....MY PSYCHIC TOLD ME THAT THE PEOPLE THAT WERE AROUND US BEFORE THE WEDDING WILL BE THE ONES AROUND US AFTER THE WEDDING AND THERE WILL BE DAGGERS AND THORNS THROWN AT US TO TRY AND BREAK US A PART.....NEVER THINKING THAT IT WOULD BE HIS IMMEDIATE FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

'I LUV MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS THAT DID COME AND I THANK THEM FOR THE WONDERFUL TIME I HAD'

SORRY SO LONG BUT HAD TO SHARE

I WILL POST PICS IN A FEW
Lissy3077 Posted:

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Mooshyboo Posted:

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awww happy shower! I am sooo happy to hear you had a GREAT time despite the no shows! I keep saying to my self the one's that will want to be there me & FH will be and the one's that won't... I have come to realize through this whole wedding process who my REAL friends and family truly are! I am happy to hear you had a great time & posts some pictures when you can!


oops sorry i did not see the pics... looks like a GREAT TIME!
BrideChrissy Posted:

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I'm glad that your shower was beautiful and all the people you care about was there. I'm sorry that FH's family didn't show up. That is disapointing but it is all about you now!

poogie Posted:

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THANKS EVERYONE FOR YOUR ENCOURAGING WORDS
medic6809 Posted:

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FH's fami.y missed out on a great day, and the are showing there true colors. FH saw that first hand. Women sometimes forget the bridal shower may be more about the bride, but the grooms secretly get into it. FH family could not come but all sent cards, and still he was hurt. My very own SISTER did not return my 22 phone calls or advised yes/no for the shower and then did not show......Well I guess it proves who really cares I'm sorry they were jerks, but Congrats on the fun day with people who are excited for you
CrazyLove Posted:

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I'm soooooooo happy you had a great time and plz plz don't let that bother you..b/c I already know that is exactly what will happen at my shower n I don't give a damn!!!!!!!!!!
bonitachyc Posted:

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i'm sorry FH's family not showing up made you upset, but if they really cared about you, they would've made other arrangements or made it up to you in someway.

what your psychic tol you was right...the people that are there from the beginning will be there til the end. be happy that your family loves you and threw you such a great party! great pics!!
twinkletoes807 Posted:

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Ugh!! Sometimes family is so friggin disappointing!! I am so sorry that this happened to you! At least your wonderful family surrounded you on your special day with love!! Congrats on having a beautiful shower and on all of the lovely gifts you received!!
LB and DC Posted:

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i am so sorry that happened!!! family can be sooo aggravating!!!

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