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**IT SHOWERED YESTERDAY**BUT I AM JUST A TAD BIT SAD!

poogie Posted:

**IT SHOWERED YESTERDAY**BUT I AM JUST A TAD BIT SAD!

YES IT SHOWERED YESTERDAY AND MY MOM, SISTER AND DAUGHTER GOT ME GOOD. THEY TOLD ME THAT MY AUNTIE WAS HAVING A FUNCTION AT HER BUILDING WHERE THEY WERE GOING TO HAVE A PALM READING AND A MASSAGE LADY PLUS YOU COULD EAT AND ALL FOR $10 PP. SO OKAY I HAD NOTHING ELSE TODAY AND MADE THE DECISION TO GO.....SO MY MOM CAME AND PICKED ME UP ALONG WITH MY TWO SONS AND WE WENT TO MY AUNTIES....SINCE SHE LIVES IN A BUILDING I PAYED NO ATTENTION TO THE PARKED CARS......

WE GO IN THEN I AM LOOKING AT THE DECORATIONS ALONG WITH THE BALLOONS AND COLORS THINKING TO MYSELF....'DAM THOSE COLORS LOOK FAMILIAR'.....'SUPRISE' CAME THE BIGGEST YELL EVER!!!! I SAID WHAT THE F#$#!!!!!! AND STARTED TO TEAR UP.....MY FRIEND OF WHOM HAS BEEN HELPING FROM HER BED DUE TO HER BABY TRYING TO COME EARLY PLANNED EVERYTHING ALONG WITH MY MOM, SISTER AND DAUGHTER AND KEPT IT A SECRET.

IT WAS NICE COZY AND WE HAD A LOT OF FUN.

NOW...........................................................................
NO ONE FROM MY FH'S FAMILY SHOWED UP....I MEAN NO ONE....OMG I WAS LIKE WERE THEY INVITED? WHAT HAPPENED?.....YES THEY WERE AND THEY RSVP'ED THAT THEY WOULD BE THERE. HE HAS 4 SISTERS, HIS MOM, 4 AUNTIES AND HIS GRANDMOTHER....OKAY GRANT IT THEY LIVE IN QUEENS/BRONX AND BROOKLYN AND NONE OF THEM DRIVE WITH TEH EXCEPTION OF 1 AND SHE IS A BM IN MY WEDDING....NOPE SHE DID NOT SHOW UP!!!!!!!!! SO WHAT KINDA OF GAME IS SHE PLAYING? SEE THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DEAL WITH IGNORANT PEOPLE. IF MY FMIL WANTED TO COME ALL SHE HAD TO DO WAS CALL MY FH AND HE WOULD HAVE PICKED HER AND ANYONE ELSE UP.

WHEN HE CAME TO PICK MY UP HE SAYS...'WHERE IS MY FAMILY?' I SAID NOTHING AND MY SISTER WALKED AWAY, BUT MY DAUGHTER (MOUTH ALL MIGHTY) SAID....'OH YOU MEAN THE ONE'S THAT HAVE EVERYTHING TO SAY?'......'THEY DID NOT SHOW, NOR CALL TO SAY THEY WERENT COMING......AND THAT'S F'ED UP' HE GOT SO MAD AND CALLED ALL OF THEM ON THE PHONE......
1 SISTER SAID...'OH I GOT OFF FROM WORK AND WAS SO TIRED...WOULD HAVE TO MY HAIR AND THEN IT WOULD HAVE BEEN TOO LATE' BUT SHE SHE FORGOT THAT SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE WAS OFF THIS WEEKEND!!!!!!!!!
2 SISTER=BM IN WEDDING....TOLD SISTER #1 THAT SHE HAD TO WORK AND NEEDED THE MONEY SO SHE COULDNT COME
MOTHER=SAYS SHE HAD NO WAY TO GET THERE!!!!!
OKAY THESE ARE THE ONES RANTING AND RANTING ABOUT WHO WE DIDNT INVITE FROM HIS FAMILY....SEE I DONT NEED THEM MESSING UP OUR DAY AND WE PRAYED AND VOWED THAT WE WOULD LET THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEVER-THE-LESS I HAD A GREAT TIME...GO LOTS AND LOTS OF GIFT CARDS AS I WANTED ALONG WITH MANY OTHER BEAUTIFUL GIFTS.....MY PSYCHIC TOLD ME THAT THE PEOPLE THAT WERE AROUND US BEFORE THE WEDDING WILL BE THE ONES AROUND US AFTER THE WEDDING AND THERE WILL BE DAGGERS AND THORNS THROWN AT US TO TRY AND BREAK US A PART.....NEVER THINKING THAT IT WOULD BE HIS IMMEDIATE FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

'I LUV MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS THAT DID COME AND I THANK THEM FOR THE WONDERFUL TIME I HAD'

SORRY SO LONG BUT HAD TO SHARE

I WILL POST PICS IN A FEW
GettinHutched Posted:

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I'm so glad you had a great time despite the no-shows! I can't believe them- that is so disappointing.

But glad you had fun! Congrats!
HamptonsBride Posted:

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Congrats!!!
Sounds like you were better off without them there anyway!!!!
hunnybunnyxoxo Posted:

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congrats! sorry about the in -laws!! very ignorant and rude!

MrsB2BE Posted:

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CONGRATS on the shower - Glad you had a good time despite FH family not showing up!!! I love the picture of you and your children

Pencils Posted:

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I'm glad you had a great shower yesterday!

Sorry about your FH's family. I had something similar as well at my shower yesterday, no one from my FH's family came except his dad's girlfriend, who gave wonderful presents. (FH's mom passed away recently, but she would have been there.) And I also had some people from my side not there. The only thing you can do is realize that you can't control other people's actions. I'm not going to be bitter about those who didn't show up at my shower, but I'm not going to forget, either.
AlmostKulak Posted:

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Glad you had a great time, too bad FH's family is being like that.
poogie Posted:

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Posted by Pencils

I'm glad you had a great shower yesterday!

Sorry about your FH's family. I had something similar as well at my shower yesterday, no one from my FH's family came except his dad's girlfriend, who gave wonderful presents. (FH's mom passed away recently, but she would have been there.) And I also had some people from my side not there. The only thing you can do is realize that you can't control other people's actions. I'm not going to be bitter about those who didn't show up at my shower, but I'm not going to forget, either.



SEE THATS JUST IT....I AM NOT ONE TO BE BITTER BUT I WILL NEVER FORGET AND WITH ALL THE DRAMA THEY ARE TRYING TO BRING....I WONT EVER FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND THEM MUCH EITHER....I FEEL WORSE FOR MY FH HE IS TAKING IT REAL BAD
kat74 Posted:

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sorry they acted that way-- but at least you spent the day with people that love you and you had a great time!! Don't let them upset you. It was their loss --missing out on such important and special events.
Dee606 Posted:

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I'm so glad that you enjoyed your shower.


Fh's family should be embarrased & ashamed of themselves.
Pencils Posted:

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Posted by poogie
..I FEEL WORSE FOR MY FH HE IS TAKING IT REAL BAD



I think my FH is just embarassed at his family. And then there was someone from my side too, but there are issues there as well. Eh, what can you do? The important thing is we're getting married soon!
poogie Posted:

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Posted by Pencils


Posted by poogie
..I FEEL WORSE FOR MY FH HE IS TAKING IT REAL BAD



I think my FH is just embarassed at his family. And then there was someone from my side too, but there are issues there as well. Eh, what can you do? The important thing is we're getting married soon!



AND THAT WILL HAPPEN REGARDLESS!!!!ITS OUR DAY!!
Drv0716 Posted:

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I'm sorry FH's family disappointed you Congrats on the shower. It looked like you had a wonderful time!
diva7531 Posted:

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That stinks, sometimes people can be so inconsiderate! I am glad you had a good time! When my sis threw me a baby shower, one of my GF's at the time, was perturbed that she couldn't be in charge of the shower, so she sabotaged it by not telling my friends the correct date, so at my shower, not one, of my friends were there! I had a good time regardless. Good for you for mot saying anything to FH about his family, and good for your DD for speaking up!!! At least this way he realizes, it's his family that is a problem. I hope his mom ans sis's realize what they did wrong and somehow make up for it!

Loved your pics! Congrats!!!!

PattyK Posted:

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Congrats on a wonderful shower!!!

MushesGirl Posted:

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it just goes to show some people have no class. like many other people have said in response here, you were better off not having them there. i can't imagine how upset your fh is. but congrats on a wonderful shower despite them!

Future Mrs. Posted:

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That is very dissappointing. It seems to be that they are just not that interested in it.....don't understand how important it is to you....and don't really care.

Just treat the relationship in a very professional manner.....we can't force people to love us...and it seems like that's OKAY b/c you sure do have a lot of people that love you already....sounds like your family threw you a BEAUTIFUL , thoughtful, lovely shower!
Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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Congrats Glad you were able to make the most of it!
angelover02740 Posted:

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I so understand you, when I arrived at my shower, there was only 2 people from FH's side of the family there. his SIL and cousin My FMIL and FSIL were out shopping and arrived 2 hours late gotta love them

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